I feel like I am in high school again. I hate it. I hates HS and Middle School. I had crappy social skills and people were quick to judge you and talk behind your back
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Look, Nani, High School is just a precursor of life and unfortunately in life, we fuck up.
I'm sure that after your apologized, things will work out. And unfortunately, there are pretty much no people in the world that don't judge other people. It was a mistake and I'm sure that you can make it up to her.
*nodnod*
And perhaps the reason that she told a mutual friend was because she wanted an opinion on whether she had a right to be mad or if she was over reacting. Think about it this way. By going to someone who also knew you, she could check herself and see if they could tell her something she didn't know about your reactions. If she'd gone to someone who didn't care or know you, they might have said untrue and hurtful things to her because they would have been more on her side than yours.
AND the benefit to knowing through a mutual friend is that you at least were informed of the faux pas instead of being 100% blindsided later. Shit happens. And as you should know, not all mommies are perfect.
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I'm sure that after your apologized, things will work out. And unfortunately, there are pretty much no people in the world that don't judge other people. It was a mistake and I'm sure that you can make it up to her.
*nodnod*
And perhaps the reason that she told a mutual friend was because she wanted an opinion on whether she had a right to be mad or if she was over reacting. Think about it this way. By going to someone who also knew you, she could check herself and see if they could tell her something she didn't know about your reactions. If she'd gone to someone who didn't care or know you, they might have said untrue and hurtful things to her because they would have been more on her side than yours.
AND the benefit to knowing through a mutual friend is that you at least were informed of the faux pas instead of being 100% blindsided later. Shit happens. And as you should know, not all mommies are perfect.
Lurves ya girl.
-Deni
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