I've been writing in a lot of other places about this stuff, but a few more points never really made it into any other discussions.
VVC recognises a very important female tradition, and celebrates the female gaze. This is a very important thing to protect, and I'll fight with tooth and nail (LOL, I wrote that as 'tooth and claw' the first time
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Instead of crying into your cornflakes about it after the con is over and it's too late, if you think some men are being systematically overbearing in panels, call them on it at the time. Like giving out a warning before someone gets TOS'd.
It can be really hard to speak up, I know, but no-one learns anything unless they're made aware of the problem in the first place.
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...maybe it's a valuable lesson learnt for next year. Maybe.
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I found in my discussion that I was getting conflicting messages. On the one hand, I heard 'we want everyone! really!' and on the other I heard 'er... we really want to protect our space'. I understand how human it is to have both impulses, but it's really making things messy right now. Also, I personally believe it's possible to both respect history and change moving forward. But then I would... I'm a historian and a linguist. :p
But more importantly: VVC = not centre of universe. Just 'a' place. YES PLZ.
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And I do agree with you that things will undoubtedly change sooner or later, for better or for worse, but for now... MESSY. SO VERY MESSY.
ALSO, WE NEED MOAR CONS.
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You've just put *exactly* what's been troubling me the most about this far more effectively than I could. Systemic male privilege is a very serious business real issue, and when you raise it to a bunch of people who weren't there to take action on, I can't exactly just write that off. But on the other hand, everyone's take home perceptions are going to be coloured by their own prejudices, so it's really not the best move to assert your own opinions to an online space that wasn't there to see for themselves. Awkward.
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