So, uhm. Yeah.

[0o_mlh_o0]

Yeah. Carrie style update.

Lately I have been living an extremely care-free single life.
No commitments, no problems, everything was cool.
Recently I have become more dependant and clingy.
Definately not my style. I'm not exactly sure what's going on.
He is really great, I'm not gonna lie. But I don't know if that is what I want.
I'm not even sure if he

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[rufer_2005]

Clap.....clap....clap...clap..clap.clapclapclap[Claps run together in a frenzy of excitement from the one-man crowd, Cody]...

You know, I have no doubt in my mind you are right and completely agree in a lot of ways, I'll actually say that for woman's sake, guys are the most common cause for breaking hearts and shutting that "closed door" between a couple.
You really want a good guy don't you? ... immaturity takes it's toll on a lot of guys; do you remember in middle school we talked about how girls mature faster? Thats what they meant by it too, not just physically guys feel like they only want one thing and get cocky because they believe they can get that "thing" from the many woman that surround them.
As for the the past Arabian cultures, we have a different standard today and thats part of evolution I hope...or maybe we will always be so shallow, I've not thougt of myself that way out of confidence, but I have been told different...so ah I guess take it or leave it. Well really good one just thought you deserved a comment.

[benvanzee]

Cody grow a dick.

[0o_mlh_o0]

Haha. Idk.

[benvanzee]

I think you are incorrect in saying that men don't want commitment. I mean it may appear that way to you in your relationships so far that havent' worked out. But personally (from a man's point of view) I go through phases of what I want and don't want. That was a time in my life, (a few years ago) when I wanted nothing more than a committed relationship and to be "tied down", and I was in a very committed, loving, loyal, and sensual relationship for roughly two years. I loved being tied down I guess you can say. I was truely in love. But now I don't feel the need for that kind of relationship. I feel the way that you described "most men" not wanting commitment. But I will tell you this . If a guy really loves you, he wants to be committed, he wants to be tied down to you. He doesn't even have to love you, for a guy to genuinely cares for you, not just trying to get ass, but want you as a person, he won't mind be tied down, or the inconvience of being committed to you

[0o_mlh_o0]

Yeah, you had some good points.
And I don't think the exact tone of my update was apparent.
It wasn't bashing guys, definately not.
I love guys, I'd rather hang out w/ guys than girls.
But, I mean, they were just some randomg thoughts about commitment.
I think that younger guys [especially now] are scared of "love" aka commitment. Soooo. thats why they have the often problems in relationships.
Thanks for your opinion/whatever. haha!
I didn't even know you read my journal! haha.

[benvanzee]

Well I think you did have very good points also. And Yeah I do read your LJ, except for whenever you post song lyrics.. I don' t know if you do or not.. but I never read those. But my reply was just me thinking about what you said at 3:30 AM.
Later.

-BVZ

[rach_ott]

i see where your coming from, i personally have horrible luck with guys and my main problem is that i blame myself for everything that went wrong in the relationship, always have, probably always will. but you know this already. i think the stereo type of boys and girls is that boys want sex, girls want relationships, but like many stereo types they arent always right, think about lover, lol. but i do love boy bashing, it's one of my hobbies. im one of the girls that wants a relationship, but lately i think they are more trouble then they're worth. im sure some people have great relationships but mine always suck and leave me hurting. again im restating what you already know. i think some of the reasons that boys cheat and whatnot is because of society, they have been taught that it's perfectly fine to whore around,in fact they are praised for it. but think of how society looks at women who do the same thing they are whores/sluts and looked down upon. i blame society.

[rach_ott]

oh i do like the 'girls would do anything to make their relationship work but they never do'. haha we both know i went to hell and back for a certain someone. thats just what love does to people, i still love the boy though, but thankfully im not in love anymore, if that makes sense.

[0o_mlh_o0]

Haha. I agree with all of that.

Yeah, that made sense btw.

Thanks for the comment!