bullshit about family and friends being the reason. something he doesn't want to admit himself. no one can stop you from seeing someone but yourself. but if thats the way things turn out then maybe its for the best honestly.
and it should honestly drive you up the wall, completely understandable. theres nothing you can do about any of it really. Just do your best to not take it personally, everyone makes their own decisions for their own lives, you shouldn't take it personally, its not you, its them. Thats cheesy to say, it really is, but its true, even when relationships don't work out its not because anybody is necessarily at fault its because the most you can be is yourself and sometimes yourself and their self aren't the same person at all.
You know I'm biased, but i think you should listen to most of your friends. All these years just show you he's not ready, and prolly not good enough for you. You truly deserve the world. As for your aunt, I'm so sorry. But I think you are doing a lot being there for her. so try not to worry too much. If you need to talk, I'll always try and be there.
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and it should honestly drive you up the wall, completely understandable. theres nothing you can do about any of it really. Just do your best to not take it personally, everyone makes their own decisions for their own lives, you shouldn't take it personally, its not you, its them. Thats cheesy to say, it really is, but its true, even when relationships don't work out its not because anybody is necessarily at fault its because the most you can be is yourself and sometimes yourself and their self aren't the same person at all.
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As for your aunt, I'm so sorry. But I think you are doing a lot being there for her. so try not to worry too much.
If you need to talk, I'll always try and be there.
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