[ooc] sexuality meme
The Easy Part
What is your ...
Ⅰ Name:
Lady Une
Ⅱ Age:
21
Ⅲ Sex:
Female
Ⅳ Gender Identity:
I'm not certain what you mean by this. Identity is a complex matter.
Ⅴ Sexual Orientation:
Heterosexual, I suppose.
The Functional Part
Ⅵ Let’s talk virginity. Have you lost yours? If yes, how was the experience? If no, how do you feel about it?
No, I'm content. [that's half-true]
Ⅶ Are you sexually active? How much so? Are you comfortable with your level of sexual activity?
I'm not active in that respect but I'm comfortable in this state.
Ⅷ Do you masturbate? How often and, if applicable, to what?
With all due respect, I'll forego this query.
Ⅸ Promiscuity: How many sexual partners have you had? Ideally, would you get around more/less if you could? Do you have strong feelings about others’ promiscuity/lack thereof?
None. Though I've been told to do away with some of my formalities, that doesn't reflect any intent to pursue a union of that nature. As for the choices made by others, I don't aim to judge anyone.
Ⅹ Safe sex: Do you practice it? Do you know how?
I've undergone temporary sterilization as a precaution against being compromised.
Ⅺ Do you now have or have you ever had an STD? Have you ever gotten or gotten someone else pregnant? If yes to either, how did this affect you? How anxious do these risks make you about sex?
No.
Ⅻ Let’s be frank: How good are you in bed? How good do you think you are? How comfortable are you with your sexual performance?
I lack any practical knowledge on that front.
The Fantasy Part
ⅩⅢ Physically speaking, what do you find attractive in a potential sex partner?
I don't really dwell too much on the physical. Darkness solves that problem quite well, I would think.
ⅩⅣ What about mentally/emotionally? What kind of attitude or personality turns you on? Why?
Someone truthful, sincere and understanding. Or at least a good enough liar to convince me they possess those traits without me catching on. That at least betrays some cleverness. I place high value on good conversation and insight. Challenges are enjoyable.
ⅩⅤ Do you prefer to be on the top or the bottom or neither? Are you generally dominant, submissive, or neither? How does this relate to your personality out of bed, if at all?
Diplomacy requires adaptability.
ⅩⅥ How important is your partner’s satisfaction to you and why? Are you needy/demanding/giving/etc.? Is romance or emotional connection important to you in sex?
It's of considerable importance to me. A sense of duty, I suppose. I would likely be what the situation required as long as the parameters are within my comfort zone. Romance is unimportant but an emotional connection is. It would be more a matter of trust than love.
ⅩⅦ Are you vanilla or kinky? If the former, how comfortable with/aware of non-vanilla sex are you? If the latter, what are your major kinks? How did you discover them, and how do you feel about them?
Vanilla? What do you mean?
ⅩⅧ What turns you off? Why?
Betrayal. The reason goes without saying.
ⅩⅨ How active is your fantasy life? How often/how vividly do you fantasize about sex? Describe a fantasy situation for you.
I think I'll forego this query as well.
Some Gritty Details Part
ⅩⅩ Talk about your sexual awakening. How old were you when it happened? Who/what was the first thing that aroused you? How did it affect you emotionally?
Next question, please.
ⅩⅪ Have you ever done/fantasized about anything sexually that you’re earnestly ashamed of? What was it? Would you do it again?
Yes, but I can't say nor do I think I would do it again.
ⅩⅫ Have you ever committed a sex crime? Have you ever been the victim of one? In either case, if yes, how did this affect you?
No on both counts. I help uphold the law. I have, however, taken precautions against falling victim.
ⅩⅩⅢ Is there anything about your sex life or sexual preferences that you would never tell anyone? How sexually open/repressed are you in general? Why?
There's a lot I wouldn't tell and I suppose that paints me as repressed. I value my privacy in that matter.
ⅩⅩⅣ How do you feel about sex, morally speaking? Beyond the basics, are there any sexual areas - homosexuality, prostitution, whatever - that you have strong, moral reactions to? Where do those come from?
Homosexuality is as natural as heterosexuality. However, prostitution strikes me as inherently wrong. An act of such importance shouldn't be demeaned into a mere service for financial gain.
ⅩⅩⅤ If you could change one thing about your sex life, would you, what would it be, and why?
Perhaps. That's really all I can say.
What is your ...
Ⅰ Name:
Lady Une
Ⅱ Age:
21
Ⅲ Sex:
Female
Ⅳ Gender Identity:
I'm not certain what you mean by this. Identity is a complex matter.
Ⅴ Sexual Orientation:
Heterosexual, I suppose.
The Functional Part
Ⅵ Let’s talk virginity. Have you lost yours? If yes, how was the experience? If no, how do you feel about it?
No, I'm content. [that's half-true]
Ⅶ Are you sexually active? How much so? Are you comfortable with your level of sexual activity?
I'm not active in that respect but I'm comfortable in this state.
Ⅷ Do you masturbate? How often and, if applicable, to what?
With all due respect, I'll forego this query.
Ⅸ Promiscuity: How many sexual partners have you had? Ideally, would you get around more/less if you could? Do you have strong feelings about others’ promiscuity/lack thereof?
None. Though I've been told to do away with some of my formalities, that doesn't reflect any intent to pursue a union of that nature. As for the choices made by others, I don't aim to judge anyone.
Ⅹ Safe sex: Do you practice it? Do you know how?
I've undergone temporary sterilization as a precaution against being compromised.
Ⅺ Do you now have or have you ever had an STD? Have you ever gotten or gotten someone else pregnant? If yes to either, how did this affect you? How anxious do these risks make you about sex?
No.
Ⅻ Let’s be frank: How good are you in bed? How good do you think you are? How comfortable are you with your sexual performance?
I lack any practical knowledge on that front.
The Fantasy Part
ⅩⅢ Physically speaking, what do you find attractive in a potential sex partner?
I don't really dwell too much on the physical. Darkness solves that problem quite well, I would think.
ⅩⅣ What about mentally/emotionally? What kind of attitude or personality turns you on? Why?
Someone truthful, sincere and understanding. Or at least a good enough liar to convince me they possess those traits without me catching on. That at least betrays some cleverness. I place high value on good conversation and insight. Challenges are enjoyable.
ⅩⅤ Do you prefer to be on the top or the bottom or neither? Are you generally dominant, submissive, or neither? How does this relate to your personality out of bed, if at all?
Diplomacy requires adaptability.
ⅩⅥ How important is your partner’s satisfaction to you and why? Are you needy/demanding/giving/etc.? Is romance or emotional connection important to you in sex?
It's of considerable importance to me. A sense of duty, I suppose. I would likely be what the situation required as long as the parameters are within my comfort zone. Romance is unimportant but an emotional connection is. It would be more a matter of trust than love.
ⅩⅦ Are you vanilla or kinky? If the former, how comfortable with/aware of non-vanilla sex are you? If the latter, what are your major kinks? How did you discover them, and how do you feel about them?
Vanilla? What do you mean?
ⅩⅧ What turns you off? Why?
Betrayal. The reason goes without saying.
ⅩⅨ How active is your fantasy life? How often/how vividly do you fantasize about sex? Describe a fantasy situation for you.
I think I'll forego this query as well.
Some Gritty Details Part
ⅩⅩ Talk about your sexual awakening. How old were you when it happened? Who/what was the first thing that aroused you? How did it affect you emotionally?
Next question, please.
ⅩⅪ Have you ever done/fantasized about anything sexually that you’re earnestly ashamed of? What was it? Would you do it again?
Yes, but I can't say nor do I think I would do it again.
ⅩⅫ Have you ever committed a sex crime? Have you ever been the victim of one? In either case, if yes, how did this affect you?
No on both counts. I help uphold the law. I have, however, taken precautions against falling victim.
ⅩⅩⅢ Is there anything about your sex life or sexual preferences that you would never tell anyone? How sexually open/repressed are you in general? Why?
There's a lot I wouldn't tell and I suppose that paints me as repressed. I value my privacy in that matter.
ⅩⅩⅣ How do you feel about sex, morally speaking? Beyond the basics, are there any sexual areas - homosexuality, prostitution, whatever - that you have strong, moral reactions to? Where do those come from?
Homosexuality is as natural as heterosexuality. However, prostitution strikes me as inherently wrong. An act of such importance shouldn't be demeaned into a mere service for financial gain.
ⅩⅩⅤ If you could change one thing about your sex life, would you, what would it be, and why?
Perhaps. That's really all I can say.