Comments | 13mmjackel: Respect issues

13mmjackel

Respect issues

Sep 11, 2009 21:08

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cookie_heist September 12 2009, 02:22:12 UTC

!!!
I definitely would be horrified if that happened to me.

I wouldn't say that you shouldn't ever have to knock (because what if she's changing?), but you definitely shouldn't be uncomfortable walking into your room when you need things.
Maybe they could plan to meet sometime when you're in class and can't walk in. Or maybe they could find a quiet, neutral part of campus to make out in. Or go back to his place every once in a while...

Because it is your room too...

aericron September 12 2009, 02:26:32 UTC

I'd say just make sure that she can't take it as you're trying to be a mother. I think that's an all too common problem when we try to talk about this stuff with our own age group. Just say that its very awkward when you walk in to the room that she AND you live in to find that she's locking lips with some guy. *sure, there's the whole rebound issue, but that'll just seem like you're parenting*. Basically, its your room as much as it is hers, and if there was something that you did that she didn't like to see upon walking in, I'm quite sure you'd be nice and find a solution to that. Just common courtesy among us nice people :P

cookie_heist September 12 2009, 02:36:14 UTC

This is why he's your boyfriend and I'm not. XD

You said what I wanted to say a lot more clearly.

floralcloud September 12 2009, 03:24:07 UTC

I wonder how people go about finding someone to make out with them when the first month of the semester hasn't even passed.

mistress_kaia September 12 2009, 18:28:14 UTC

At least they aren't fucking, so it could be worse.

I'd just be straight up with her and just be like "I don't want this to go on in the dorm room. Or if you're going to do it, let me know in advance so I can do something else." Etc. Etc.

Yup. And if it becomes a problem, talk to your RA.