It hurts so badly

[1_unfixable_sin]

It hurts when you lose someone. It hurts even more when u lose someone because of you. I had someone who loved me more than i could ever love myself but i threw that away because i couldn't be strong. I didn't know what i wanted. What i thought i wanted, wasn't what i wanted at all. I wish the saying "u don't know what u have until u lose it" wasn'

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[bananip]

If you want another chance, you can't just hope for one, it's something you have to fight for. Let the person know exactly how you feel and show how serious you are with your actions, not just with words. There is nothing worse than knowing that you could have done something, but didn't.

[deathtoperham]

Danielle, it'll be alright. I don't know what happened, but I'm sure all you'd have to do is ask.

[lauraeliza]

I'm not sure what happened, but I have a pretty good guess. I went through the same thing though, a little less than a year ago. I know how bad it hurts, and how unattractive it makes you feel. But my friends gave me some good advice and I'll pass it on: this is YOUR life. LIVE it. The way you want. FIGHT for the things that are important to you. If someone out there can't appreciate you, then screw them. There are plenty of others that would KILL to have someone like you in their lives. But if that person is who you know you want, than just talk to them. Talk it out. Get some closure. Have an explanation. And get some time...it could work later. Just time. And ice cream, chocolate, and quality time with some good friends. The magic cure, I swear.

[1_unfixable_sin]

i dont know if it will be alright annelise. this time i think i screwed up something that really was all that i wanted in life. i'm afraid the other person gave up on me. It's not my call anymore.

[bigbert_44_]

Oh well. His loss. Hope you feel better.

[anonymous]

I hate to sound callous, but there will be other relationships. Its obvious you've just gotten out of one, despite how veiled and cryptic you made this post. Your young and you haven't yet met all the people you are going to meet. You may love this person, but that doesn't mean you won't love other people too. You have to realize the end of a relationship is not the end of the world. But if you choose to look at it that way, it might as well be. You may think your in the worst position ever, but your not. There are people suffering in far worse situations that you could not even imagine. Yes, you hurt, but you are not dead and you have opportunities open to you, so don't wallow in it. And to be a bit cliche, there are people in LA that have lost their loved ones for good. You've lost something, but you haven't experienced loss like those people have. This may seem like I'm a real jerk, but I'm just trying ot put it in perspective. It sucks that your sad, but you'll heal. Move on and realize how lucky you are to be alive

[1_unfixable_sin]

you are such an insensitive ass. I'm not saying it's the end of the world and yes i know there are other people suffering far worse than i am. If u take me to be some ignorant and arrogant person u are dead wrong and don't know me at all. I express my feelings and u tell me i'm wrong to feel that way. I know all what u're saying. I will love others. I never said i wouldn't. It's just right now, this is how i feel. If that is wrong, then honestly i don't understand why u're reading this. I know how lucky i am. I don't take that for granted but right now, i'm going through something u could never understand or feel. Don't list urself anonymous. I want to know who u are so that i can find u and explain myself.

[1_unfixable_sin]

in addition, i wasn't hiding anything. This post damn right makes it obvious what i'm talking about. I didn't want to reveal who the person was and fact is i called that respectful. You would be an idiot not to know what i was talking about.

[zippityzag]

Danni dear,

You are never alone. And you never deserve to be.

This love you had, if it is truly love, will never be lost, merely evolved. Try looking at this not as an end, but simply the start of something different. All pain will ease with time; even if you do not believe it now, just believe me when I say it.

Try not to be too harsh on the people trying to help you, even if that is not the type of help you need. But look at their intentions, not necessarily their actions.

And, yes, I will fight for you even if you don’t want to fight for yourself. Whatever you need, you have my support. You need only ask. Just hang in there, and do what you think is right.

Hugs and support,
Hector