Sex fucks up way too much shit. If I'd known that sleeping with her was gonna cause this much of a problem, I never would have agreed to it. I would have simply taken care of business, and left it at that.
But of course, I've never found abstinence particularly hard to maintain, and it's my understanding that most other guys around my age DO have problems with it...
lol. It's weird...we talked about it, and we had agreed things wouldn't get weird...that if we slept together that we'd remain friends...so the deed happens (plus another girl) and ever since she won't talk to me. Oddly enough, the other girl and I do still talk...
I don't get it...is it a case of respecting a girl, or taking shit slow is now a detriment? I just don't get it anymore. I swear...you women...you're all so confusing.
I would guess that she had sex with you, and then decided she had feelings for you and doesn't know what to do now since things were supposed to be casual. That's just a guess, mind you. Either that, or she regrets that she did a one night thing with someone and doesn't know how to handle it. Unfortunately, if it's something that she never had done before, she wouldn't have known ahead of time how she'd react to it.
Question, were you the one that initiated the causal sex thing or did she?
We originally met at Ubercon back in 2005 and have been talking since then. Who knew a whole friendship could come out of lending someone a CAT 5 cable? It was such an awesome friendship, and she and the other girl were amazing when Sheila broke up with me (2006)...honestly, if I'd known that her never talking to me ever again was going to be the fallout of us hooking up...I never would have gone through with it. I really miss her friendship more than anything else.
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But of course, I've never found abstinence particularly hard to maintain, and it's my understanding that most other guys around my age DO have problems with it...
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Some women just weren't meant for the type of life I lead....
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It's weird...we talked about it, and we had agreed things wouldn't get weird...that if we slept together that we'd remain friends...so the deed happens (plus another girl) and ever since she won't talk to me.
Oddly enough, the other girl and I do still talk...
I don't get it...is it a case of respecting a girl, or taking shit slow is now a detriment? I just don't get it anymore. I swear...you women...you're all so confusing.
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I would guess that she had sex with you, and then decided she had feelings for you and doesn't know what to do now since things were supposed to be casual. That's just a guess, mind you. Either that, or she regrets that she did a one night thing with someone and doesn't know how to handle it. Unfortunately, if it's something that she never had done before, she wouldn't have known ahead of time how she'd react to it.
Question, were you the one that initiated the causal sex thing or did she?
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We originally met at Ubercon back in 2005 and have been talking since then. Who knew a whole friendship could come out of lending someone a CAT 5 cable?
It was such an awesome friendship, and she and the other girl were amazing when Sheila broke up with me (2006)...honestly, if I'd known that her never talking to me ever again was going to be the fallout of us hooking up...I never would have gone through with it. I really miss her friendship more than anything else.
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