....grr...

Aug 30, 2007 01:09

Sex fucks up way too much shit. If I'd known that sleeping with her was gonna cause this much of a problem, I never would have agreed to it. I would have simply taken care of business, and left it at that.

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scintilla72 August 30 2007, 12:32:42 UTC
This only reaffirms my whole abstinence stance.

But of course, I've never found abstinence particularly hard to maintain, and it's my understanding that most other guys around my age DO have problems with it...

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reddest August 30 2007, 21:49:08 UTC
Well I think it's fucking hard! And I am a girl. But I am battling for the same stance. Guess I don't know how old you are, though.... ;)

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scintilla72 August 30 2007, 23:46:01 UTC
And that was when I realized that I don't have my birthday listed in my profile. So, I'm 22.

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1knighthawk August 30 2007, 23:48:07 UTC
god...I never realized I had 6 years on ya Peter.

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alethiasmiles August 30 2007, 14:00:08 UTC
Huh? With who?

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reddest August 30 2007, 21:49:34 UTC
Sorry buddy. :/

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1knighthawk August 30 2007, 23:58:25 UTC
it's ok...don't worry about it

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annaonthemoon September 4 2007, 05:58:46 UTC
Well, clearly she wasn't mature enough to handle the whole "friends with benefits" or "one night stand" thing.

Some women just weren't meant for the type of life I lead....

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1knighthawk September 4 2007, 19:11:23 UTC
lol.
It's weird...we talked about it, and we had agreed things wouldn't get weird...that if we slept together that we'd remain friends...so the deed happens (plus another girl) and ever since she won't talk to me.
Oddly enough, the other girl and I do still talk...

I don't get it...is it a case of respecting a girl, or taking shit slow is now a detriment? I just don't get it anymore. I swear...you women...you're all so confusing.

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annaonthemoon September 4 2007, 19:16:18 UTC
Yeah, we are.

I would guess that she had sex with you, and then decided she had feelings for you and doesn't know what to do now since things were supposed to be casual. That's just a guess, mind you. Either that, or she regrets that she did a one night thing with someone and doesn't know how to handle it. Unfortunately, if it's something that she never had done before, she wouldn't have known ahead of time how she'd react to it.

Question, were you the one that initiated the causal sex thing or did she?

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1knighthawk September 4 2007, 19:33:07 UTC
honestly, I don't remember.

We originally met at Ubercon back in 2005 and have been talking since then. Who knew a whole friendship could come out of lending someone a CAT 5 cable?
It was such an awesome friendship, and she and the other girl were amazing when Sheila broke up with me (2006)...honestly, if I'd known that her never talking to me ever again was going to be the fallout of us hooking up...I never would have gone through with it. I really miss her friendship more than anything else.

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