Timing

[1st_baby]

Just heard from an Indon friend of mine here that she's preggars with her 3rd kid. Her daughter is only 3 days younger than Josh and this brings me again to the question.. hmm, is it time? I'd love to have another to keep the age gap close so the kids can play together. But I really don't wanna have No.2 here & alone

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[inspire_u]

for your decision, it has to be a joint one, what does EC think? cos i think hubby support both emotionally and physically is really important, all the more with you alone there.

Also got to consider where is your next move - will you still be alone?

I am sure your mom must be so pleased with that photo of her and josh, so lovely!

I'm ok, you read my latest latest post already.:)

[1st_baby]

Yah.. it's precisely all these undetermined factors that I don't dare to take the risk now.. can't turn back once we hit the jackpot! ;)

hubby wants No.2 too but I know he knows I can't do this alone, not with josh running wild. So, I think it's safer to wait till we know more.. and after Josh is 2.

Yes my mum makes me take tons of photos of her and Josh everyday!!! Phew..

[inspire_u]

for my 2 1/2 year gap, there have been pretty difficult times as shannon herself is still a baby. now that she's 3, she 's a lot more independent and responsible and loving towards her younger sis. I see my friends with age gap of more than 3 years old, and the older kid adjusts well and better to having a younger sibling. good luck!

[joyce_yww]

Its not easy, alone and with #1 so young. I have some problem coping even when Joey oredi 4.5 when Bel was born. Do you have churchmates to help out or can your parents or PILs go over to help when you have a baby?