great loss and weight gain? {103}

[1twiggywannabe]

i have logged onto LJ a few times since i last posted, but honestly i dont know where to start so much has happened...

what is new in this fabulous life of mine:
"Tristan" is gone. I don't really wanna talk aobut it right now but he's a jerk off... totally manipulative... and i'm really sad that this shit went down like that because i really did have

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[laundromantic]

gosh
wow i am shocked! i am soo sorry you had to go through all that. you shouldnt feel disgusted with yourself or anything. it is not your fault. the way you describe it, is was definitely sexual assault. even if it cant be proven, just the way you feel about it shows that it is. if youd wanted it, you wouldnt feel like this! but seriously, it is so unfair that all this has happened to you. i know what its like to be taken advantage of, and it is terrible. but you have to know that it isnt your fault at all and you did nothing wrong. confront the guy if you have to, and then move on. dont talk to him again. he is not a good person.
i hope you feel better xxx

[mon_deluge]

Oh sweety, I am SO sorry to hear what your friend did to you. You were NOT asking for it. And you didn't have to say "no" to make it sexual assault. One thing I know is that "the absence of no does not equal consent." He used his power to make you do that. He cannot blame it on being "horny" assault isn't about sex - it's about power.

I'm so sorry to hear what happened. I can relate and if you ever need to talk to someone, I am here. There is also this great forum I found, idk if you're into that. Sometimes just reading about others can be therapeutic.

good luck. <3

[un_civil]

You think anyone is reading this crap? Jesus!