Advice

[20splinters]

I was doing some thinking about the last ex and things that seemed off from the beginning, and this led to thoughts about other exes and friends and early warning signs that should have alerted us to cut things of at the start. List follows

Comments

[angel530]

"Pushing for early commitment. This is a means to control you before you have sufficient time to establish healthy boundaries within the relationship. Being pushed too fast makes you rush into things before you have time to think about if they're right for you.

Excessive use of drugs and alcohol. Whether it's the other person drinking/using or yourself, it affects judgment, which of course, can lead to making bad decisions."

This.

One of my ex's if you can even call him that! Spiked my drink with ecstacy then asked me to marry him after we'd only been going out 2 weeks!

There's a lesson I won't forget quickly

[20splinters]

Isn't it amazing what levels people will go to?

- Troy