ugh

[21secs]

is it so wrong of me not want to hang out with friends since I rather focus on church and preparing myself for the baby that is on the way? :\

Comments

[rikkilee]

I am in the same predicament as you. we aren't doing anything wrong, but it is hard for our friends to understand because they are not at the point of life that we are in right now. It's frustrating, but try to not let it bother you. they will get angry. just let them be angry, don't try to fight back with justifications. they will get over it.

[particularly]

I'm going to say no because I would feel the same way, I guess. :\

[chainsawhoney]

no, never think so.

[rabidgod]

Not at all.

[pinafore]

you know, i had the same opinion as you at first. but my husband made a very valid point. when the baby's born, you're going to need as much support as you can get. parenthood can be a very isolating experience and by working to preserve your friendships while you have the time, it's better for you. and in the long run, it's better for your baby. your peanut not only gets a happier, more well-rounded daddy but daddy's friends who will shower him or her with love, affection, funny onesies and sugar-infused treats.

don't get me wrong, at this point i think i only see my friends about once a month... but still, i think you should make some time for them.

[reve119]

This was going to be my answer. There's nothing wrong with focusing on your life situation, but don't shut your friends out of your life completely.