tragic past never ending!

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I was listening to a song that just reminded me of my grandma. she passed away on August 28th, 2008. I totally wasn't looking forward to it. at the wake and funeral, I was the only person crying. everybody else was just talking and not saying a thing. I yelled out, "WHY AREN'T YOU GUYS CRYING? GRANDMA IS DEAD. YOU PEOPLE ARE JUST MINDING YOURSELF.

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[oh_______murder]

:(
I remember my grans funeral 9yrs ago. Wow, feels like yesterday.
After we burried her everyone went back to the house for tea and I went to her grave and spoke to her and cried for the first time.
God I hate death.

[nueva_alba]

i'm sorry. :(
if it's any consolation i can relate quite a bit. i lost my gran almost two years ago now and before that i'd already lost my other gran and my papa. at the funeral there was a lot of tension between my parents and some of our relatives. basically, my uncle is a huge dickhead and is the greediest and more uncaring man i think i've ever met. at the dinner after the funeral, they refused to even sit with us, despite the fact there was a big table in the middle of the room for family. they also turned other family members against us. and this was all because he wanted more money from my gran's will. he ended up getting it, too.

ah, families.

[mandamayshula]

Aw isn't it awful...I cried my eyes out when my grandma died when I was 17. I couldnt' stop crying and everyone else around me wasn't. I'm sure they were holding it in though. My sister did a speach and cried her eyes out to I could have punched her in her face for that. Made it worse for everyone!

[paulimapi]

Aw RIP.
You are right, she's happy now and free of her illnesses.

[dearpapillon]

gosh. I'm so sorry about your grandma, this was a really touching post.

[21secs]

my grandmother's death hit me so hard. it landed me into the hospital the following week.