Awww. Nikki, your words, peotic as they may be, I understand. The way you put them, in your words so vauge, but so deep, I understand every bit of it, every bit of the overall situation. It's sad, I'm sorry. The last part "but if she wants to be with him this departure... will be common" is true. I felt this way when I was still with Alec but not dating him. We were friends with benifits, but me and him aren't cut out for that. It did work for us. Since we had previosly lived together, i couldn't just come over get it and leave, it wasn't what I was used to, it wasn't how things had ever been. Be strong, don't let it crack you, if you see your self about to fall apart, leave it. Be cold and unemotional like him. If he can do this and be fine with it, so can you...well at least to him. He dosen't desirve the right to know he is hurting you. You don't want him to have the upper hand. I know my mistakes, I can't fix them, I know what I did wrong, and how I could have done it and kept some of my dignaty, but it's too late for me. I know
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i know that this is hurting him too... i cant speak about another guy infront of him without him getting upset... and then when i ask him what is wrong he says nothing, i hit a nerve, hopfully it was the right one!
Well, to me that shows that he still cares for you. Maybe in a bit he'll get over this "phase" and want to go back out with you. When you mention other guys, he reilizes that you are not his, not fully, and that you could leave him for someboby else at anytime. What you do is your choice, you could tease him by flirting with other people and get him so jealous that he'll really want you back and even sooner, but you have the risk of him giving up and not pursuing or trying. That would piss me off and give up on him because I would think that he never really cared in the first place, not really caring anyways. Or you could stick with him, I don't really know what could happen. I don't want to give you advice and start worring about what I said and what I did. I want you to do what you think is best. I think it was the right nerve, I think if he really does care at all, he'll be coming to his senses soon. Men don't reilize that girls have them in the plam of there hands sometimes. Burised egos can make or break a man...or boy. Well I
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