I'm lucky that the idea of getting pregnant or having kids only appealed to me twice - once briefly in late adolescence after a friend of mine had a baby and once a few years later when I found out about the endometriosis and was advised that if I wanted a baby I'd better do it ASAP or risk impaired fertility. This launched a quite temporary crisis which culminated in a sense of acceptance if I couldn't have a baby in the future, seeing as I just wasn't ready at age 22.
It's amazing, but 9 years later I haven't since had the faintest glimmer of interest in having children. There were a couple of times I felt guilt at this, along of the expectation of parents/inlaws at desiring grandchildren. But guilt differs greatly from actual interest.
I figure if I want the experience of raising kids I can always adopt. I'd be leery of passing on my and my husband's genetics - and health problems - to offspring. Fortunately he wholeheartedly agrees. With my health profile I'd have a high risk pregnancy anyway.
I looked into Buddhism at one point in my life. (I've "looked into" quite a lot of religions over the years.) On the surface it was appealing for its serenity, but upon deeper reflection it seemed just a big cop-out on the world. I'm all for some level of detachment in order to stay sane, but Buddhism seems to reject all reality.
I tried Buddhism wasn't really for me:) I guess I can't be that good for that long.I had the I wish about babaies but it didn't last I guess it really isn't for me and I'm a bit old for it now.I hope you have a lovely meal
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It's amazing, but 9 years later I haven't since had the faintest glimmer of interest in having children. There were a couple of times I felt guilt at this, along of the expectation of parents/inlaws at desiring grandchildren. But guilt differs greatly from actual interest.
I figure if I want the experience of raising kids I can always adopt. I'd be leery of passing on my and my husband's genetics - and health problems - to offspring. Fortunately he wholeheartedly agrees. With my health profile I'd have a high risk pregnancy anyway.
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I just heard that on The Daily Show in a spoof called "This Week in God" and thought it was funny.
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What's happened to us?
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