It seems once again i've let my self-control escape me in dealing with family drama. I like to think of myself as a person who knows who she wants to be in life...but often times has trouble getting everyone else on the same boat
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you got it 100%. i had a major dose of a control freak this weekend and yesterday she stepped over the line when i was trying to be helpful in her delima by saying "shut the F--k up, Michele". I mean what mom actually say's that to their child in the first place...and then what kind of an adult say's that to another person who is doing everything to help them figure out the problem at hand? Mother or not, i would never say that to another person!
So my over reaction was to just hang up the phone on her. Childish, imature, and now i'm stuck holding the bag of having to say "i'm sorry" in her eyes! A line i'm not sure (at the moment) i actually want to cross...?
family drama makes me sick to my stomach and want to crawl in a hole and hide from them all. I tend to think that as a 32 year old woman with an 8 year old daughter and a husband of 12 years...i shouldn't have to still be treated like i was as a child? Maybe i do think too much?
i think i'm the only person in the family with a conscience! I always say i am sorry..even if i feel i am in the right. My sister did several mean things to me last summer...and she knows that what she did really hurt me, my mom told her i was waiting for an appology and she (still) refuses to think she did anything worth saying "sorry" for. And trust me, what she did is worth saying sorry to anyone with feelings
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i had a major dose of a control freak this weekend and yesterday she stepped over the line when i was trying to be helpful in her delima by saying "shut the F--k up, Michele". I mean what mom actually say's that to their child in the first place...and then what kind of an adult say's that to another person who is doing everything to help them figure out the problem at hand? Mother or not, i would never say that to another person!
So my over reaction was to just hang up the phone on her. Childish, imature, and now i'm stuck holding the bag of having to say "i'm sorry" in her eyes! A line i'm not sure (at the moment) i actually want to cross...?
family drama makes me sick to my stomach and want to crawl in a hole and hide from them all. I tend to think that as a 32 year old woman with an 8 year old daughter and a husband of 12 years...i shouldn't have to still be treated like i was as a child? Maybe i do think too much?
*hugs to Gary for listening* :o)
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