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[3spazzkateers]

so lately, I've noticed that more and more people are pairing off. Thats great, and i am happy for them. But what i dont understand is how people can be so ungrateful for what they have. You (or a lot of you) have a significant other (or have had one) or have someone who wants to be with you. Take it from someone who hasn't been lucky enough to

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[dasushfish]

I couldn't have said it better myself . . . and take it from the person who had something, and couldn't control it (though that was 2 years ago), and the person who threw herself out there to get rejected and compared to stocks . . . oh well.
Thank you
~Sush

[harmonylover]

Hm... You're definitely right. And the people who are popular with the opposite gender shouldn't throw boyfriends and girlfriends away left and right, but rather think about how much they care about someone before they get into a relationship that will ultimately hurt the other person. I know how you must feel- obviously I'm in a different situation, but I remember what it was like to think that no one had ever liked me like that and I had no future in that arena. I don't know why you haven't gotten lucky- at least, you're better-looking than many of us with boyfriends/girlfriends, and you're both kind and fun to be around. You just haven't found the right one. And that's what it all is, too. You may find guys you like, but the really special relationships happen when you feel well-matched, rather than just attracted to each other. Having a relationship isn't always the best thing (*cough*Jess*cough*), of course, but I agree with you that people should be more appreciative of others liking them. And yes, if you're unhappy in your

[3spazzkateers]

maybe i should have phrased this a bit better... im not wishing that i was in a relationship... what im saying is, some people who are dont know what they have, i cant give specifics cuz i dont want to bring people out of anonymity. I just see people so unhappy with who theyre with, etc. My placing my situation in there was more of a contrast point than anything.