does somebody have a work ethic i can borrow?

[43burnt]

im not doing as well as i hoped i would. i feel like everyone else is failing too, and that doesnt make me feel relieved at all. i thought college would be so easy, and i just want to prove my parents wrong. they said that i would never get into a good college, they said i wouldnt succeed. im starting to think that maybe they were right about

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[porcelina37]

sorry to tell you, but this is the next four years of your life. get used to it.

[like_a_lobster]

You have no idea how much we're going through the exact same thing. We should motivate each other!

[brianacaso]

YOU CAN DO IT
i have faith in you!

[ashtheunholy]

Steph, I went through the same stuff last year at Rutgers. The thing about work, is you have to find a balance between work and leisure time. Hardly anyone has it balanced first semester. I just didn't try to get it the second semester either.

And about needing someone to motivate you, I learned really quick that it's all up to you. I thought that I would need a girlfriend or this or that through college to get me to be a better person. But guess what, just finding good friends was enough. If it weren't for college I'd be totally socially fucked up right now. Just do things for your own well-being and everything will turn out gooder :P

GOOD LUCK W STUFF!

[porcelina37]

you know i'm the only one being realistic, right? that's a change for me, since i'm usually unrealistic and overdramatic, and i'm always the victim.

[43burnt]

you really need to stop being so unrealistic and overdramatic. you can keep being the victim, though.

[porcelina37]

ok. but i'll no longer be the victim of your sexual advances, you pervert. i'm a married woman.
ps are you around for the weekend? stop by on like friday night or whatever.