hypocrite or not, u be the judge

[4aces]

well this morning turned out to be pretty messed up.the girlfriend was going through my email stuff checking out websites that i have been on. like i care. i went on a couple of dating sites or meeting places. i have nothing to hide. so she goes on to look at my profile and stuff and says i am on there to meet girls and have sex with them. what a

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[soopageek]

I guess it just depends on what the two of you want. It sounds like you both made intarweb dating profiles under different assumptions about what it was for. Yhere's nothing wrong with open relationships, I'm actually a proponent of them, but they obviously don't work for everyone - and given your apparent lack of solid communincation and relationship security, I'd argue that yours certainly isn't ready for that can of worms. So I guess I don't understand why either of you were making personal ads to begin with? There are many other ways to make "online friends" other than personals sites.

[4aces]

i know what you mean.she is 19 so she has not really experienced a whole lot. or at least thats what i think. dont get me wrong but she showed me the sites and how to join them. so im just following what she shows me.

[xopink_heartsox]

i only showed you the face the jury and hotornot. and what do you mean i aint really experienced?

[4aces]

you havent experienced what life is really all about. there are some tough things to go through out in this world you still have to go through.

[pickle02]

That is kind of rediculous and even more hypocritical. It seems that she is being very childish in this situation and shes just trying to get you back or make you jealous. The trick is to show her that youre not! heh.

[4aces]

i am a little but you are right. trying not to show it is the right way to go.

[nandayconure]

ok, for one you guys aren't married, so it is probaby good to see what is out there before you totally commit. second, if you don't actually meet people then it's not cheating. in my book it isn't cheating unless you actually have sex with someone else. my husband goes to those match search sites to laugh at the fat chicks they try to set him up with. i don't mind. however you have to be fair. if he found out i was going to sites to drool over john cena, he would totally freak and probably cut off my internet!! also he is kind of worried that i talk to you on live journal. really though the good part of realationships don't last long enough to worry about all that stuff anyway.

[4aces]

i know that feeling.im just trying to make friends not start a new relationship. but there are always jealous people out there.

hey

[mastermarik2006]

i don't want to be rude or anything lol but she sounds a little paranoid. having no trust in a relationship is not good >coming from a 17 year old< <<>> lol :-P

later dude

Re: hey

[xopink_heartsox]

umm if you new him and what he put me through you wouldn't trust him either

[4aces]

you act like i put you through alot. dont forget what you have put me through also. so if they knew you to. believe me when they say there are two sides to every story.

[xopink_heartsox]

what have i put you through? you have put me through so damn much that its not even funny. i haven't put you through anything. i aint MARRIED to someone and have THREE kids by someone else. the only thing i put you through is wanting to go home. becasuse YOU lied and said you would GO and MOVE there to get me to come back up here with you.

[tonguexuntied]

The best thing is for both of you to delete your accounts. I don't see why either of you would have any now that you're not only together, but having a baby.

Matthew and I met on a dating website and immediately deleted ourselves when we became serious.