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Tonight me and jackie had a long talk. As some of you are aware she does have a two year old son. Now when we first started dating she told me about him but I hadn't been around him. He was with the grandparents in St. Louis. Now, he's back and her paul time has gone back to nil. In addition, she told me that when she started dating me she was
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im sorry your going through so much. i wish i could do something to help, but i dont think theres anything i can really do.
your a nice guy, with a good head. you'll make the right choice.
if you love her, then try to make it work. but dont be in something that requires you to commit what you cant give. dont rush into marriage. your young.
just think this through before you commit yourself. dont react too quickly.
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im here if you need to talk. im a good listener, or i think i am.
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She told you she's looking for a father and a husband...but where does that leave room for being Paul?
One thing I've learned about being unexpectantly pregnant and having to plan everything for its future is that once you have a child, they come first. Of course, her kid is past the baby stage and he will start preschool soon, but if you're not ready to support her or the baby then you gotta tell her that. You gotta tell her your fears and everything you're feeling (whether they hurt her or not). It's not like you'll be running away from her and her kid (though many women who have tried dating with a child esperience that), but it's about YOUR life...YOUR choice.
If you love her, great. Tell her you do, but you're not ready. If she loves you, then she'll understand and wait for when you are ready. But if she's rushing it, then maybe it's not right because it's a one minded case.
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smart girl. <333
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