Why is it that if I have friends that are just friendly I get bitched at. And god forbid I say someone else is cute or attractive or I'm just friendly with them I'm at fault
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I got in trouble for trying to be friendly with you =\. Aha, it's all good tho. I never really come off the right way sometimes.
I get kind of defensive sometimes with my lady because I'm scared and I love her so much. She's not doing it to be mean or because she doesn't trust you, she does it because she loves you and with the whole thing with you ex's...she probably just doesn't want you to get hurt. Love is so weird. And I can be completely wrong.
Yeah but she does the same things I get yelled at for. Or more rather I get accused of doing. I'm just tired of hypocracy....and at first I didn't care it was just after really analyzing the whole situation that I got kind of bothered and yes at times offended by it. And I don't want to just give up on it cause I do I love her soo much she doesn't even realize it. So I try and fix things I do wrong and I try to ask her to fix things that hurt me but it never seems to change. I just want to be happy and not cry anymore you know? I want her to trust me cause I'm not doing anything wrong the way I trust her even though she is again doin the same things she gets mad at me for.
And I still don't care and forget about it like it never happened because I do want to spend the rest of my life with her but not if she's never gonna admit she did or does something wrong cause I do admit when I'm at fault and I try to change it. How are you and your lady anyway?? Hope things are good with you two. Sorry I just completely ranted to you haha
birdbirdbird. Love is awesome but can also suck at times. This is one of those times, i'm afraid. I used to have the same issue but I don't really talk to my ex's anymore. Not that you should stop talking to yours. She does do it out of love, though. She want's your attention and as selfish as that may make her seem, it's just because she loves you so much. It's a hard situation but it will get better and pass. Just don't push away. It's always hard at first but it gets better, I promise. You guys are cute and you always work stuff out! So, don't get discouraged or anything. :) Hope I helped!
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I get kind of defensive sometimes with my lady because I'm scared and I love her so much. She's not doing it to be mean or because she doesn't trust you, she does it because she loves you and with the whole thing with you ex's...she probably just doesn't want you to get hurt. Love is so weird. And I can be completely wrong.
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And I still don't care and forget about it like it never happened because I do want to spend the rest of my life with her but not if she's never gonna admit she did or does something wrong cause I do admit when I'm at fault and I try to change it. How are you and your lady anyway?? Hope things are good with you two. Sorry I just completely ranted to you haha
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