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Jan 17, 2005 21:31


There is one thing i know for a fact guys hate about gurls and thats the fact that gurls are most times ashamed of their bodies.... i try so hard to be confident around my boyfriend but i can't be comfortable...

this weekend i went to santa barbara with my best friend. we stayed with her sister and had a really fun time shopping, taking pics at ( Read more... )

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stale_viagra January 18 2005, 08:28:38 UTC
hey amber. i only met you that one time (if you even remember me, which i think you do because u friended me) but what i do remember about you is that you were sweet and Gorgeous! I'm sure you already do this, but just try not to eat if you're not hungry, and especially not if youre full just because it looks good or you feel like you have to clean your plate. On the case of your best friend, i clearly dont know her but i doubt she would ever intentionally make you feel bad about yourself, she probobly just doesnt understand that some people dont have the blessing of being able to eat whatever they want so it's hard for her to understand. Maybe she just sees something she wants and instinctively tells you to have one too because she wants one and maybe she doesnt want to make herself feel bad by being the only one eating. Another thing, being healthy and slim isnt just about exercise and amount of food, its also about quality of food and what you eat rather than how much, ive read 100 magazine articles and everything about this and im ( ... )

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__ambz__ January 19 2005, 04:32:23 UTC
yes i def. do remember u from the beach i believe and pizza after ?? but anyways thank u alot for the advice. it helps a lot!! i neede that!
<3 am

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stale_viagra January 19 2005, 06:52:29 UTC
thaats me! awesome! i hope everythings going well for you amber!
xox

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pololovesme January 18 2005, 22:26:33 UTC
amber i totally know how u feel. i always think of how i look in everything and it makes me completely ashamed when im with a guy. even i swear i just got this obsession like a year ago, i think its taken over my life. ive always tried to be in the positive state of mind and try to accept my body, but its just too hard... especially in high school... i totally understand u... lets work out sometime!!

kisses

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__ambz__ January 19 2005, 04:33:09 UTC
i love u cory.... i bet we have a lot more in common than u think! we should workout for sure!

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lol o amber iversongrl19 January 18 2005, 23:00:55 UTC
i say eat whatever the hell u want and excerise.....if that doesnt work keep eating and get FAT!..and go to the movie heavyweights...where u can have a instructor that speaks with a russian accent, and asks you to learn each othas names....but u already know each othas names.!

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Re: lol o amber __ambz__ January 19 2005, 04:33:28 UTC
O TASH!!!

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Re: lol o amber yduiluvu January 23 2005, 04:16:09 UTC
omg the movie heavywieghts ROCKS! Hey i dont really know how we know each other but i understand the whole not beign comfortable wiht your body thing, i used to have a hard core eating disorder, and now i have completely gotten over it but you must learn to love yourself and that doesn't mean u dont have to work out and u shouldn't work for what u want but u must first learn to accept life the way it is and then you can amke the changes you desire, dont know if that helps at all but keep strong, everyone is beautiful...and trust me you may think u look disgusting in skirts or whatever but the people around you are probably in awe of your beauty!

x0x0 Alaina

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Re: lol o amber __ambz__ January 23 2005, 17:58:33 UTC
thank u so much! do u go to sm?

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oohlala226 January 19 2005, 01:40:09 UTC
haha i love the movie heavyweights! dude ambs ur beautiful the way u r and im not just saying that babe! but its ur body and ur decision. i kno how u feel about being embarrased about your body! i feel like that every single day, thats why i like to wear sweatshirts so i wont get shit because when i wear a shirt or something people always comment ugh! boobs suck! lol so i know how u feel when u say u feel weird in skirts although u have great legs so dont even trip babe...its good that you are trying to overcome how u feel about urself tho and im proud of u! and im so happy that you have a guy who seems to really care about you! yayaz girl! love ya bunches! xox

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__ambz__ January 19 2005, 04:33:51 UTC
thank u k, we never hang out anymore and i miss u!!

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sugarsweetie99 January 19 2005, 05:22:23 UTC
amber i think you are a beautiful person inside and out. everyone has insecurities about their bodies but you seem like a really healthy person and beleive it or not, I really think you have a better self-acceptance than a lot of other girls I know. :)

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__ambz__ January 20 2005, 22:17:50 UTC
thanks babe..... u know me well

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