I’ve met this guy who makes me really happy but he doesn’t know about my cutting habit. I don’t want him to find out because I don’t want him to look at me in any other way than he does now but I don’t want to keep secrets from him
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you can't keep it from him. you have to tell him. and if can't except it...then he's not worth it. a good boyfriend (or even just friend) will except it but he might try to give you help or tell you to stop. if he asks you to, all you can say is "All I can do about this is try." hope you can do it.
hey sweetheart, i can totally give u an advice coz that happened to me...u do know that he will freak out if he knew that u cut right? if u want the truth, he wont, he will freak out but thats coz he loves u and he doesnt want to see u doing this shit.. so here is what i think u should do..keep it a secreat sp? for a while untill u can control ur cutting..this might take 3 to 5 months. but if u think that u went for a long time without cutting, tell him. u will always slip coz its inside of u. its nothing to be ashamed off, u should tell him about u cutting once u know him and understand that its okay for u being a cutter coz u r trying to stop, u r getting better darling right? u have nothing to lose, when u tell him, make sure he understands that u r trying to stop and u love him so much, thats why u wanted to tell him. if he acted like an asshole to ya..hes not worth it. i hope i didnt sound mean or anything lol...and if u need ANYTHING, sweetheart just send me a message or something.
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if u want the truth, he wont, he will freak out but thats coz he loves u and he doesnt want to see u doing this shit..
so here is what i think u should do..keep it a secreat sp? for a while untill u can control ur cutting..this might take 3 to 5 months.
but if u think that u went for a long time without cutting, tell him.
u will always slip coz its inside of u.
its nothing to be ashamed off, u should tell him about u cutting once u know him and understand that its okay for u being a cutter coz u r trying to stop, u r getting better darling right?
u have nothing to lose, when u tell him, make sure he understands that u r trying to stop and u love him so much, thats why u wanted to tell him.
if he acted like an asshole to ya..hes not worth it.
i hope i didnt sound mean or anything lol...and if u need ANYTHING, sweetheart just send me a message or something.
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