hmmm

[__disfigurine__]

What do you do if you know that someones girlfriend is cheating on them? And they are both your friends?

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[grrlpower]

what would you want if your girlfriend were cheating on you?

[__disfigurine__]

well obviously, I'd want someone to tell me....

[grrlpower]

so keep that in mind.

Is it something you can talk to the cheater about? Maybe ask them what they're thinking, or even question if they should break it off? I think rarely can someone legitimately justify cheating, so maybe they will be able to recognize that they need to change something; break off one of the 'relationships'/

[punkzero]

I'd tell them. I'd want the m to do the same for me.