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[__inadream]

i told tom i would make my decision one way or another this weekend, him versus brian. brian and i are going to a family thing so we'll see how it turns out (last time, a few weekends ago, he left me alone with like thirty people i didn't know and went golfing with his cousin instead for four hours), and we're going to the casino (where we usually

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[onlywordsnow]

Women and men are different. They are extremely different, yet they are the same. Your heart wants what it wants and there's not anything that you can do about it. Comfort is nice, but it doesn't come quickly. It takes time, and maybe you could take a little time to think about it...This is your right now. This is what matters.

[chillygator]

Can I vote for the flip a coin method? Because when it's in the air you'll know which side you're hoping it lands on and...easier (o:

[that_nuanda]

The inadvertently pressuring isn't good at all and you should talk to him about that, but no offense, I'd be pissed about the situation too. You're dragging these two guys along and it's not fair to Tom or Brian OR you. You need to choose and whoever you don't, then end it completely. You'll just get frustrated "just being friends" and then that one guy who lost out will make you feel bad and you'll go through the whole process AGAIN.

[jessica_eliza]

Neither. No guy should leave you alone with a bunch of people you don't know and then go off golfing with his cousin. The least he could do is to bring you along, unless you actually don't mind mingling around with strangers, alone. He could've even taught you how to golf and made fun out of it. If he had wanted some alone time with his cousin, he shouldn't have brought you there in the first place