I used to have MAJOR problems in this area, for YEARS of my life. It got to the point where even the lowest of the lowlifes mattered to me, at least in what they thought. I was getting super-dressed up just to go GROCERY SHOPPING, for fear someone would look at me funny. *sigh* You know what I did? (And it did not happen overnight, let me tell you, but it HAS paid off in the end) I began to think daily about how great I was. I would compare myself to others, but always try to find a way to be better than they were. I told myself a million times a day how intelligent and beautiful I was... and after some time, I began to believe it. At the point I am now, I don't worry about what anyone thinks, aside from people who truly matter. I love myself now, and wish I could go back years ago to help that poor little grrl I once was. You can, too!
Hang in there, and just remember that it's your life, and no one matter but you in it.
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and if they dont leave you alone they are stupid
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*sigh*
You know what I did? (And it did not happen overnight, let me tell you, but it HAS paid off in the end) I began to think daily about how great I was. I would compare myself to others, but always try to find a way to be better than they were. I told myself a million times a day how intelligent and beautiful I was...
and after some time, I began to believe it.
At the point I am now, I don't worry about what anyone thinks, aside from people who truly matter. I love myself now, and wish I could go back years ago to help that poor little grrl I once was. You can, too!
Hang in there, and just remember that it's your life, and no one matter but you in it.
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thankyou so much hun =]]
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