3 Questions

[_box_spring_hog]

What do you expect of people who are important to you?

Should you expect anything of people because they are important to you?

Why do people expect things from people who are important to them?

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answers?

[angrysquaw]

1. at least MOST of these are needed for anyone I consider "close"
caring, thought and listening, comunication and ability to make own oppinions, honesty as often as is applicable, and a touch of shit giving to keep everyone in check

2. I expect things of people that I care a lot for... I think that if they aren't what I expect, I should be aware of that... I don't like to keep my guard up, but gotta protect myself from people who'll hurt me, and refrain from situations where I might hurt someone else

3. just because I think... and therefore I am... don't mean other's don't too... if we want to have relationships with others, which is built into our humanity... than you want to be with people who are good for you... I expect people who I want to be good for me, to infact be good for me... if they fail the test they're no longer in the running

(I think I just failed someone else's test, which makes me sad)

[ezr_2stalk_wlj]

1- i expect them to tell me when i look creepy in an LJ picture. -awkward pause- yeah.

2- nothing more than that.

3- because jesus said so.

[_box_spring_hog]

since you are jesus...hmmmm