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[_cosmicjacuzzi]

Waking up and have your mind start running instantly isn't a great feeling. Since the Thanksgiving Holiday is tomorrow, I thought I'd join in on the "I'm Thankful" for's:

• My Job. The kids in my class amaze me every day, and I love watching them grow. Their parents are also very nice and welcoming. [Most of them.]
• My family. They're the people that

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[octoberxswimmer]

Your ambiguity about the situation with the Less Devoted Man makes it difficult to offer advice. But it's not like I have advice to begin with. I am a horrible advice-giver. It would make more sense, if us readers knew what is keeping him from being one-hundred percent devoted to you. Our minds can only wander into speculation. But I understand the lack of detail, it is needed in mediums such as Livejournal sometimes. But I always believe that people that have made a positive impact on your life, should remain in your life in some capacity. But I know a lot of people who need to cut ropes to even the Greatest Love of their lives. I think it depends on what type of person you are. Feel it out. Happy Thanksgiving!

[_cosmicjacuzzi]

When I posted this, I thought of you. I don't know why though. I don't know if you remember, but you sent me a valentine about 3 years ago, and I still have it.

His wife and son is what is keeping him from being devoted. Don't worry though, I'm not a happy homewrecker.

I'm not sure what kind of person I need to be if I want to keep him in my life. I know I need to be more mature and realize that we can't be together.

I'm sure I this entry didn't make sense and is very vague, and I thank you for your response. I'm glad I started using Livejournal again for this reason.

[octoberxswimmer]

Not that it is my business, but you shouldn't be hopelessly in love with a man who has a wife and kid. Im sure that if you were to run off with the man or whatever it is you have in mind, that he will jump at the next 20 year old girl who is madly in love with him.

Nevertheless, you should be able to keep him in your life, but as long as you show respect to his family regardless of what he feels about you or why.

[_cosmicjacuzzi]

Ah, to hide behind anonymity. I should have known that this was going to happen posting an entry like this. I did not choose, or seek out this man. I never said anything about running away with him, and I don't have anything of that sort in mind. I never once even said that I want a relationship with him.

I fully and one hundred percent accept that he has a wife and child. I was very vague about he and I's situation, but I feel you're making judgments that are very off base.

Plus, you obviously don't know this man at all. He is not the type of man who will "jump at the next 20 year old girl who is madly in love with him." I will take what you said with a grain of salt.