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Mar 05, 2006 16:41

Please ( answer this )

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anonymous March 6 2006, 02:44:14 UTC

i wasnt into talking about war 24/7, or paint balling all the time, or seeing who could do the most amount of pushups. so i was always picked on by 'my group.' first it was being the pun of their jokes, then i was considered gay because i wasnt into that stuff so i was the 'fag' as they so willingly called me, then i was completely left behind. i know this doesnt really answer your question but whatever...

anonymous March 6 2006, 05:55:54 UTC

so are you still friends with these people?

anonymous March 6 2006, 06:40:37 UTC

i live by the motto: forgive not forget
so while i am not close with them like i used to be, i am still their friends. i have talked to them individually about how exclusive and mean they were being and things stopped for a while.

i have other friends and they do too but we still talk.

anonymous March 6 2006, 02:54:25 UTC

she will only hang out with me if her other friends are all busy.

anonymous March 6 2006, 05:21:04 UTC

what sort of best friend is that?

anonymous March 6 2006, 05:49:20 UTC

i cant explain it. she just will sometimes only hang with me if her other friends cant do anything...i donno i am just her last resort sometimes.

anonymous March 6 2006, 17:16:15 UTC

Do you have friends you consider a last resort? Do they consider you their best friend? Wouldn't someone who is always there for you be your best friend?

Why would you want to be "best friends" with someone who kind of uses you?

theskysfalling March 6 2006, 03:42:50 UTC

We could do this in the gender retreat. Like actually do this. Like write down something that bothers you about a friend and then we can read a few, or burn them or whatever.

anonymous March 6 2006, 04:42:08 UTC

I feel like one of my close friends lies to me/doesn't trust me. I think friends lie to me about their drug usage (which I would not judge them for at all). I hate that I am not closer to friends I used to be close with. I hate it when they leave me out.

anonymous March 7 2006, 01:16:15 UTC

Maybe you shoud ask yourself why your friend is lying to you. Could they be ashamed of whatever they are lying about. Maybe they want to deal with it on their own. Or have you done something untrustworthy? Do you trust them?

anonymous March 6 2006, 05:10:09 UTC

my best friend also happens to be my boyfriend, which can be tough at times. i'm sure you know what i mean.

anonymous March 6 2006, 05:39:37 UTC

that was my situation. then we broke up. the break up was mutual. it was hard but it was mutual. at first there were definitely some hard feelings on both sides. but then we both got over it and moved on. for some reason, to this day, he will not speak to me unless i say something first. what i don't understand is how someone who you loved so much and grew so much with can drop you with out looking back. it makes me so sad because i feel like he feels like he regrets the time he was with me. i guess you obviously know who this is...