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If you want to say I am a bitch, that you do not like me, that I think I know everything, that I am a horrible person, or anything of the like, and tell me to my face, that is fine. Chances are I will look at you and say, "Ok."
If you want to say I am a bitch, that you do not like me, that I think I know everything, that I am a horrible person, or anything of the like, and say it behind my back, and I do not find out, that is fine. Talk about what you want, it is your time.
If you want to say I am a bitch, that you do not like me, that I think I know everything, that I am a horrible person, or anything of the like, and say it behind my back, and I do find out, that is fine. Chances are someone tells me and I say, "Ok." Talk about what you want, it is your time.
However, if you want to say I am a bitch, that you do not like me, that I think I know everything, that I am a horrible person, or anything of the like, and say it 'behind my back in front of me', that is not fine. Chances are I will hear, get mad, and do something about it. Talk about what you want, whether or whether it not be about me, but if it is about me, and I am standing there, do NOT act like I am not there, that is rude.
I am not stupid. I am not a moron. But most of all, I am not invisible.
I could care less what you think of me, in all honesty. However how you treat people is different. How you treat me is different.
People are to be treated with respect, until it is not deserved, regardless if you HAVE or do NOT have respect for them, they should be treated as if you do none the less.
If you do not have respect for someone, and want to tell them, tell someone and hope they find out, tell someone and do not want them to find out, tell anyone at all, that is fine. Treat them as if you do have it, until they have disrespected you, or you are sinking lower than whatever they are. Not only are you being a 'bitch/asshole', not only are the chances leaning toward the fact that they probably do not like you either, not only are you acting like you know everything because you do not know why that person is that way, but you are being rude, and disrespectful. I cannot think of anything that could possibly lower than that.
Treat someone with respect, even if what you are saying is honest, whether it is or is not insulting, and they will probably respect the fact that you can handle your own problems, and you do not look like a complete jerk, and they know what people think of them and know whether or not they want to change that quality. Everyone wins.