i told her that i didn't know
i just did a pretty big friends cut. 19 are gone. most of them were old journals or ones that haven't been updated in about a year or longer, but some were journals of people i felt i really had no connection to (interests, hobbies, etc).
sorry i gave no warning. it's just that i like being able to connect to people and understand things. for this reason, i just can't understand those people you see posting in communties saying things like "i like to give lots of comments LOLZ add me!". how can you comment on something you don't really understand? anyway. i know if i had asked who would like to be cut, i definitely wouldn't have gotten the same result as the list of 70 (i didn't plan on having a specific number, it just turned out that way) i just made.
i also apologize if this doesn't make any sense. i guess in all honesty i like having a smaller group of closer friends with similar interests than a large group of very different people, of whose pastimes are very.. well.. diverse, perhaps? i suppose i'm not so good with words these days.
last apology: sorry i'm leaving this a comment-free post. i just don't feel like getting bitched out, saying i'm wrong and that you hate me. it's hard for me to trust on here because of that one catastrophe. she told me that she wasn't the one who was spreading information. right, she had added myself and my small group of friends pretty much all at the same time, pretending to be a random person. so in turn, i banned her. not to say that i don't trust you... i'm not sure where i was going with that.