I wanted her to be on my side...

Jan 12, 2005 01:27

So Rudy and I decided we were going to get married at the end of summer ( Read more... )

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anonymous January 12 2005, 06:35:13 UTC
NOT THE MAMAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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_fairystar_ January 12 2005, 06:46:07 UTC
Dont doubt urself on whether or not I would be interested. but to be honest heres the bottom line. Ive found the love of my life who I want to marry, okay so now:
Option A: Once he is station (Did you know hes in the Air Force?) I can take the little money I have and move to that city to live in a apartment outside his base to which he can come see me on the weekends, work all the time to afford it, therefore school will be put on hold.
OR
Option B:
Get married, have the Air Force pay for my move, as well as our place to live TOGETHER, and all living expenses and health insurances paid for, to then which I can work if I want and devote most of my time to school.

If it was only one or the other, which would you choose?

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mellowyellow003 January 12 2005, 06:30:47 UTC
aww hunny i'm so sorry...you know i'm there for you, through everything....who cares what everyone else thinks...they will eventually see how much he means to you

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_fairystar_ January 12 2005, 06:50:45 UTC
Thanks Becca.. again, I seem to be telling you that a lot, Youre amazing. I love you!

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purpleino January 12 2005, 06:47:11 UTC
congratulations.

good luck.

you know how i really feel.

i hope you know how you do.

and rudy better be one hot man in bed.
and better stay like that.

coz u know what marraige does to sex lives!

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_fairystar_ January 12 2005, 06:49:16 UTC
I know how you really feel. You know I love you and have always respected your strong opinions.
Dont worry about that other part. We've definately got that covered.

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xshortxstuffx January 12 2005, 07:13:36 UTC
its ok raquel i think ur family will eventually unerstand where ur coming from. people have their own opinions and thats them but when it comes down to it, its ur life and u have to do what makes you happy. i'm here for you if you ever want to talk and remember i better be there for the big wedding or else! :)

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_fairystar_ January 12 2005, 07:27:10 UTC
thanks leni... and of course you will be there!

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anendlesswaltz January 12 2005, 07:47:17 UTC
Raquel, I'm happy for you and your decision, your a young women who can make her own decisions and you know what you want and you go forward...and if you ever need support, i'm here for you! :) I know we haven't talked in a long time, but hey, if you ever need anyone. Don't listen to people and their negative comments, there are times in which we have to go against everything to be happy, and your family will understand eventually, they have to, because they care for you...okay...i'm not going to write a book here!!!
*hugs*
Congratulations,
Iliana

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_fairystar_ January 12 2005, 07:53:13 UTC
Aww you are such a sweetheart. Thank you so much for the supportive words. They mean a lot to me. <3

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