I completely understand where you're coming from. I know how hard it is to let someone in especially when they were the first, and then to have them break your trust in every way imaginable. It's heartbreaking. It's soul-breaking. But I understand wanting them back in your life or forgiving them even if you don't want to or shouldn't... Because you can't just erase the feelings you used to have. They may not have been based on someone or something real, but the feelings themselves are true and they matter and that makes them more real than anything else. And it's taken me a while to understand that. Just remind yourself that you're better off without them because as long as you know that, what you feel will eventually fade away.
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I completely understand where you're coming from. I know how hard it is to let someone in especially when they were the first, and then to have them break your trust in every way imaginable. It's heartbreaking. It's soul-breaking. But I understand wanting them back in your life or forgiving them even if you don't want to or shouldn't... Because you can't just erase the feelings you used to have. They may not have been based on someone or something real, but the feelings themselves are true and they matter and that makes them more real than anything else. And it's taken me a while to understand that. Just remind yourself that you're better off without them because as long as you know that, what you feel will eventually fade away.
I wish you only the best. Really.
Sincerely,
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