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[_funkymonk]

I want you to post anything you want.
a story, a secret, a confession, a fear, a love, anything.
make sure you post anonymously.

I want you ALL to do this please. And by all I mean ALL.

Comments

[anonymous]

I want children so bad it hurts. I haven't had the chance yet and I constantly worry I will never will.

[_funkymonk]

:( *Hugs* If it's meant to be, it shall happen. In the meantime, spend time doing things you love, things which make you happy...Music, art, writing, reading, hugging trees...Whatever floats your boat mate. If you ever need to talk, talk to me!

I imagine everybody worries about this kinda thing; Never getting married, finding true love, having children, getting their dream job...List is endless. Surround your life with happy vibes instead of constantly worrying. xx

[anonymous]

I do (Hugging trees is always really nice!). But it all kind of falls short really. I try not tell people how I feel about this issue. I don't want anyone to know how much I want this, because if it doesn't happen, I don't want everyone to look at me with pity.

This will make me sound even more pathetic than I already do, but as much as I want children, I'm not trying for them at this time. I have no one in my life that is 'Father Material'. Another reason I worry I will miss my chance! I'm not (that) picky, I just don't want a total drop-kick loser, to father my children!

God, I need to get a life! Thanks for listening and being there, you're so sweet! I hope I can find the confidence to tell you who I am one of these days. Is it ok that I don't for now?

[_funkymonk]

That's not pathetic at all, of course you want a cool dad for your kids, who wouldn't? It's perfectly normal to worry about this kinda thing, but I bet my mum would tell you to forget it cos children are hard work :-D If you're meant to have children, it will happen. One way or another, it will! Just be yourself, chin up and enjoy life.

Of course it's fine you don't tell me who you are, you don't have to ever tell me if you don't feel like it...I hope you find the right guy so you can have a family of your own :) xx

[anonymous]

I love a guy in my class and I'm not able to tell him because I'm too shy.

My friend is annoying me because she don't understand my thoughts and she seems to don't understand that I can have problems too.

[_funkymonk]

Well, there's more than one way for a guy to know you likes him...Try showing him in other ways? You could talk to him more [doesn't have to be anything extreme...Just everyday things...Music?TV?]

As for your friend, she's being quite selfish by not taking notice of your thoughts. Are you always there for her? Do you listen to her problems? If so, tell her you're hurt by this because you've been a true friend to her whereas she doesn't seem to care about your feelings. If she still doesn't understand, it's hard but I suggest finding some new friends who will share the love. A friendship should be a two way relationship. xx

[anonymous]

This fat kid on my bus is really pissing me off. He won't stop annoying my girlfriend and me (he doesn't know we're together and thinks I'm still trying to, as the shallow say, "score points" with her). And he's really tenacious about it. And he's even in the same Scout group as I, so once a week, I get to see him twice a day. I would just like to thank _funkymonk for the oppourtunity to share this.

[_funkymonk]

You're very welcome :)

He sounds very pathetic indeed. Next time he annoys you/your girlfriend, take his sweeties off him. Should teach him a lesson.

I'm sorry you have to see this loserrrr so often! *hugs*

[anonymous]

The Last Unicorn always makes me cry

[_funkymonk]

Awww, Bambi makes me cry. *Glomp*

[anonymous]

I think I'm gay because I have feelings for people of the same sex but I'm too scared to tell anybody because I hate being judged.

[_funkymonk]

Don't be ashamed of who you are. I know it must be difficult but you don't have to tell anyone right now. Tell somebody you're close to? Somebody you can trust? Dude, anybody who judges you isn't worth caring about anyway. The people who you should care about are those who appreciate you for who you are and not 'what' you are. xx