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May 28, 2004 13:16

Kenny said he would break up with me if I work at Hooters. Ok, to me, it's just a waitressing job with an exceptional high tip rate, that would be WHY I want the job. I have a lot of debt to pay off, and my last job I made tips and made anywhere from $9-14 an hour. I need a job that pays MORE than that even ( Read more... )

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_billythekid May 28 2004, 18:37:22 UTC
I get what he saying, but at the same time um hello? your right wearing jeans and some t isnt going to stop guys from looking. I think you should go ahead and get the job and let him realize that YAH you are grown up and you canhandle it, and if he cares for you that much he will support anything you will do. <333

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_italyanbella_ May 28 2004, 18:39:56 UTC
yea, I told him about the support issue, and he was like "yea...I'm going to support my girlfriend to be a slut" Since when does working in short shorts and a tank top classify a girl as a slut....I could have sworn sleeping around=slut....but who knows? maybe Im wrong? lol

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_billythekid May 28 2004, 18:43:04 UTC
nah your right, but i know that a lot of boyfriends wouldnt approve but hooters pays REALLY REALLY well. and he has to understand that. if you get the job take it, its a good opportunity to make good cash, he doesnt know what its like ... =/ IDK but good luck! <3

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zerow May 28 2004, 20:02:08 UTC
STRIP CLUBS PAY WELL TOO!

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twilite_embrace May 28 2004, 18:46:11 UTC
fuck! if some old dude is stupid enough to throw money at me cuz I'm wearing shorts and a tight tshirt? let him.

Youre not sleeping with them. Youre not dating them. Youre entertaining them with your beauty and takin full advantage of the male-disability to not be stupid in the presence of a strikingly beautiful woman....

Tell him that. :)

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yairgo May 28 2004, 20:12:46 UTC
there is a fine line between flirting with people and leading people on. girls dont know when they cross it simply because a girl flirtin with a guy for tips will make the guy think she is interested in him. flirting is not wrong to a certain degree, but taking advantage of a man, aka leading him on is wrong. how would you feel if your bf was out leading girls on all day long making them think he wanted to be with them?

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twilite_embrace June 1 2004, 17:02:19 UTC
agreed.... Hope I didnt offend... thats exactly waht I meant... not sure if I came across that way. :)

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yairgo June 2 2004, 20:32:50 UTC
im not offended at all by what anyone says, until they talk bout fucking or kissin my gal and i just find that disrespectful

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e_drama May 28 2004, 18:47:10 UTC
i've found there are 2 types of guys: 1) the type that "owns" his girl and doesn't want anyone looking at her, hitting on her, etc and 2) the type that is proud he's with his girl and just laughs at the fact other people want her when he knows she's coming home to him.

i get a kick out of guys hitting whoever i'm dating only to have her shoot them down and walk over to me and give me a kiss.

BUT there is one thing - i know a few hooters girls and the way they make their tips is by flirting hardcore. i'd say do it, but know where to draw the line - ie - if he was in there at another table, how would you act?

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zerow May 28 2004, 20:04:41 UTC
"if he was in there at another table, how would you act?"

This is why most men have the general theory that women are dirty whores. Girlfriends should act right always, not just when their fucking man is around.

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yairgo May 28 2004, 20:09:49 UTC
yeah chris thats what he was saying, that she should act the way that i would approve of, aka even if im not there act like she would if i was, which is kinda fucked up cause she shouldnt even come close to crossin that line, but id love to see thelook on her face if she saw me flirting with another girl. especially for money... like the money makes it ok. i dont care that she would flirt for money like ive said 20 times its not about that its about he fact that she can be sexually harassed and not do shit about it

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e_drama May 28 2004, 20:10:12 UTC
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that's what i'm saying? she should act how she would if he was there ALL the time...

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_nakedstarr May 28 2004, 19:04:10 UTC
grrr thats fucked up, if you have the body thats gonna be maken you tips- why not :// i mean its not like your stripping, or working there for guys attention (although yeah it DOES feel good when someone say your sexy or something... its only human too want a compliment like tha) sorrie to hear about tha

good luck <333333333

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zerow May 28 2004, 19:58:11 UTC
"Ok, to me, it's just a waitressing job with an exceptional high tip rate" - Wow, why don't you fess up and just call it what it is? Do you think guys goto Hooters just for wings?

If you're looking for a job where you can wear tight skimpy clothing and get tipped well, I'm sure CP's will hire you...

Hooters is the same fucking thing except you can get hot wings.

Kenneth is eccentric on alot of things, but I understand where hes coming from and if you've been with him this long and don't understand where hes coming from... just wow. You should know how he is Gina.

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_italyanbella_ May 28 2004, 22:13:07 UTC
I don't care why guys go there...probably the same reason you and Kenny have been there. I don't care if they look at me. He's right, I don't want guys groping me. But I don't know for sure what the "clause" says until I go there and find out for myself.

If I was that interested, and I had to sign something saying it's OK for guys to do that, then no, I wouldn't work there. But otherwise I would. It's just hard for me to believe that guys there can grab your crotch and that's ok. I won't believe it until I read it for myself.

And if that's the case, girls cannot be fondled, and I do work there, and Kenny has a problem with it? Peace.

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zerow May 28 2004, 22:26:26 UTC
There is a sexual harassment clause... I don't know the extent, but there is.

"I don't care why guys go there...probably the same reason you and Kenny have been there" - You're so full of shit... you can't even successfully pretend to be naive.

I just think its funny that you try to play this off like you're all innocent and need money so bad. Call it what it is. Its such a selfish act and ignorant... how the fuck did you get SO far in deby in the first place...?

I have no problem with people using their beauty to get ahead in the world, but theres a difference between using it and blatantly exploiting it.

Go ahead and be a ditzy ass Hooters waitresses wearing orange shorts up the crack of your ass and have your titties hang out of 10year old's shirt. Go ahead and flirt with old dirty men and get your ass slapped all day. I hope you enjoy it.

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_italyanbella_ May 28 2004, 22:59:52 UTC
lol u just make me laugh. AT you...not with you.

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