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_jami_

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Dec 14, 2005 22:13

Okay so something happened today, but i can't talk about it and don't ask me about it, cuz it'll hurt some peoples feelings REALLY badly and I'm not gonna tell. I don't want to tal about it. It's not about L. If you know who that is then you know it's not about them . Ihave eaten soo much chocolate that I think I'm going to barf. God!!!! I feel ( Read more... )

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elffrost December 15 2005, 04:43:34 UTC

Um, yeah. Well, if you don't want to talk about it, why post it at all? Attention? Um, well yeah. Song lyrics were (and still are) one of the things that I do to make my entries longer, but any more than one in one entry is a waste of time and space.

OMG SO INCONSIDERATE, WEN! writergirl13 December 15 2005, 22:04:50 UTC

wtf?! wen, can't you have at least a lkittle bit of compassion?! can't you see that Zandy is going through a hard time? the last thing she needs is somebody thinking that she's trying to get attention. Why the he** would she make that all up? she hasn't been eating all week--do you think she'd stop eating just to get attention? and zandy's no psycho...she's a person who has feelings and has hard times, just like all of us. besides, the whole point of diaries/journals (LIVEjournal or no LIVEjournal) is to let all your angry feelings out, not to show off to the world how cool/crappy your life is!!! you have no compassion, wen. a true friend wouldn't say those words...I can't believe you said that.

Re: OMG SO INCONSIDERATE, WEN! elffrost December 16 2005, 23:34:34 UTC

When did I say she made it up? Maybe you ought to read more CAREFULLY? Huh? Yeah, and you think you're being nice Wendy? I didn't know that she hasn't been eating, and I did NOT say she's a pyscho. Wendy, I've known people who stop eating all of a sudden and get all "depressed", and 99% of the time, they want attention. Not that it's necessarily bad, because to get help, you need attention. And who are you to say what journaling is for? Uh, because FYI, a lot of people use online journaling to "show off" or whatever. I have no compassion. Ha, you're supposedly the "nice" one, and the one that "cares", but answer this question. If you're so caring and observant and all, wouldn't you have figured out that I'm not the kind of person who is all sympathetic and stuff at every little problem? You gotta get on. Not wallow over whatever's over and done with. Take a hint from Rory in Gilmore Girls. And believe it, I said it. And I'm not taking it back. I really DON'T know what's been going on in her life, nor is anyone bothering to tell me. ( ... )

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we're there for you, zandy! writergirl13 December 15 2005, 22:01:07 UTC

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hey again writergirl13 December 15 2005, 22:07:01 UTC

zandy, don't listen to wen!!! I KNOW THAT YOU'RE NOT TRYING TO GET ATTENTION!!! i mean, why the hell would you? I believe you 100%. And it was NOT a waste of time...I mean, you realized that I'll be there for you no matter what. That's totally not a waste of time.

Re: hey again elffrost December 16 2005, 23:39:02 UTC

We get the point. And you're not a very good example of "nice" either. You're taking the reactive approach to this situation, being offended so easily and all, so I suggest you try and take the proactive approach to it.

*W

PS. If you haven't figured out already, I say what I want to say, and I really don't care what other people have to say about it. I can be "compassionate" if I really feel it, but I've never been very sympathetic nor do I think the world's a happy place. Teenage angst annoys me so much, and that's why I'm my worst enemy. But we really need to get on with our lives. Because every moment dwelling on the past is merely wasting time that could be used in a much more effective way. I'm contradicting myself, I know, but get over it. I did.

_jami_ December 17 2005, 23:00:11 UTC

Wen, you are quite bitchy when it comes to other people having something heart-wrentching happen to them. Wendy's right. you do need to learn how to be compassionate. And I wasn't trying to get attention and I wasn't wasting space and I did not eat for 3 days. ok?? So stop being so fucked up and lay the hell off of my friend for trying to be compassionate. And the 7 Habits attitude is really anoying, so just stop.
Ohh, and don't think I'm taking sides, cuz I'm not. You just need to lay the hell off cuz Wendy was just trying to be a good friend.
And don't be pissed at me for saying this. just take my advise.

elffrost December 19 2005, 20:17:17 UTC

How the heck would I know something "heart-wrentching" is happening to you when you don't talk to me? I can be compassionate. There's just nothing for me to BE compassionate about. Well, maybe there is, but I don't know what it is, so how do you expect me to be compassionate about something I don't know.

Okay. I know you're not "getting attention". I was just ASKING. See the question mark? *hinthint*

I like the 7 Habits thing. So I annoy you, uh, that's your problem. I'm not stopping just because YOU don't like it. Because believe it or not, my so called "friends" are DEFINITELY not at the top of my priority list. (Note the "so-called" part)

Yeah. I'm not pissed. I may sound it, but I seriously could not care less. And why should I take your advice? Advice from someone who's trying to sort things out or whatever?Hmmm...not very smart.

_jami_ December 20 2005, 18:30:53 UTC

fuck off