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[_littleone]

IT MAKES ME SO MAD WHEN PEOPLE SAY THEY LOVE EACH OTHER AND THEY REALLY DONT.

fucking a! i read peoples journals and they talk about how theyve been through so much with their boyfriend/girlfriend and they love them so much and blah blah blah! THE TRUTH IS YOURE NOT AND YOU HAVENT BEEN THROUGH SHIT. jesus christ.

try being with someone for at

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[_meggie_]

I know exactly what you mean... and i gotta say i have been guilty of saying it... but i know i wasn't in love. It takes a long time to truely love someone... And i hate how people throw around that damn word... they are making it lose it's true meaning... and that just sucks...

[upxsoxhigh]

ahh love. love takes its time, and it happens when it happens. you cant say that just because people have been together for a month that they dont truly love each other, because you dont know that, they very well may. my parents, for example, were together for a month before saying that they loved each other, and became engaged two months later. they'll be married for 18 years june 1st. while people who think that they love someone every other week doesnt know what true love means, there are exceptions to the rule. people can love each other and not go through a lot of shit. going through stuff does not equal love meg, not in all cases.

[_littleone]

wow cherish. im surprised you of all people missed my point. thats not what i said but thanks anyway for putting words in my mouth

[upxsoxhigh]

megan. stop. i agree with you, people throw the word around too much and it is getting out of hand. im just saying that no one can really determine when love is true.

[_littleone]

no actually you can.

[moonlitenight]

I was with Eric for almost a year....there was defanitly some shit there

[_littleone]

i know. but you loved him.

[moonlitenight]

yup.....still do, always will

[_teafortwo]

yeah it pissed me off like no tomorrow when people get together and are all, "I love you" right away. beacause then when they really do hear it, from someone who means it, its not going to be as special.

[xglowingstarx]

In one of your comments you wrote "it pisses me off when people have been with someone for like a week and they say they love them."
^ I agree, im always talking to my friends about it cause someone I kno (who still hsa a bf) had been dating for like a month or so and they were alrady saying those words, I just dont get it..those words are so special and you cant just go around using it all the time... i mean i do say it to my friends but cause thats a different kind of love but people over use the word and its really annoying.. the word love has definitely lost its meaning with kids today, dont you think?

[_littleone]

i know and it makes me so mad. im thinking of coming up with a NEW word. but then thatll lose its meaning too. grrr.
STILL GUNNA MAKE ONE UP
you in ? lol

[queen_riley]

thats a good idea ^_^

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[anonymous]

I get what you're saying about how people throw the word around like it doesn't mean much, but where do you get off saying people haven't been through shit and thus can't be in love? How the fuck do you know what goes on in their relationship? Just because you've gone through hard times with your boyfriend, doesn't mean that you must go through tough times to prove you're in love. There are many couples who are deep in love, have been together for years, but haven't gone through major conflicts (like living far away or an illness). Does this mean that this couple isn't as in love as you are, oh righteous one? Because that's the impression that your statements give. And that's just wrong. You are in no position to deem whether or not another couple is in love, because quite frankly, it's none of your damn business. You're not right. Point blank. So don't be so stubborn.

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[_littleone]

oh yeah thanks. and where do you get off thinking you know so much about me and missing the whole point to this entry? do yourself a favor and quit being a pussy and leave your name next time. besides i wasnt talking about one fucking person. so while you sit here commenting in MY JOURNAL which has MY VIEWS POSTED and MY thoughts im sitting here laughing.
thanks for coming :)

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[xglowingstarx]

"Just because you've gone through hard times with your boyfriend, doesn't mean that you must go through tough times to prove you're in love."

~going thru tough times makes love grow stronger and the heart fonder, thats my personal opinion but its megs journal and she can write whatever she wants how she wants to cuz its her views on life

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[_littleone]

thanks hun