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_loquacious

What should I do?

Jul 06, 2009 11:10

Me, Roxy, my dad and my lil brother went to North Carolina for the holiday weekend to see Roxy's parents (my aunt and uncle). I had a good time but I am so pissed with my father and my brother. Call me bitter but its only recently (the last 4 years or so) that I have had a good relationship with my dad. growing up I feared him and found him to be ( Read more... )

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_keena July 6 2009, 17:00:51 UTC

i was gunna respond to your thread on NP, but i didn't feel like being PC

i wouldn't even deal with him honestly. i feel like discipline for him is already to late. i guess i'm sounding like there's no hope for him, however a burly boy his age aint tryin to hear anybody. some people gunna have to learn the hard way and sucks how it backfires on your dad in the long run (imagine ur bro being 22 years old and pullin the same mess)

and i know it's the WORST feeling to see how your lil siblings get away when murder when we knew if and when it was us, we would've gotten beatdowns. so iono.. i wouldn't even waste my sanity on an unfortunate ignorant child. it could be somebody else (another man) who will snap him into place. that's how i feel *shrugs*

_loquacious July 6 2009, 17:54:00 UTC

girl I appreciate ya response. I really feel like lettin our relationship go the way it has and when he gets older he can look for me. Now? I dont have the patience or the tolerance to deal with that crap. I just cant be fighting and correcting. thats his mommas job. He thinks hes grown because hes big for his age but I can already see he gonna get mixed up with the wrong crowd and then all hell is gonna break loose. My father has been tellin me for years that hes frustrated and wants to give up because his mother wont let him be a parent. I told him let her do what she wants. when hes 16 and whoopin HER ass he'll be gettin the call to come and step in. This is what she wants. I know too many women who cant even get the father of their child to see the child let alone be actively involved in the childs life. shes gonna regret this and its a shame my brother has to be the casuality for her ignorance but whatever. cant force people to do something they dont want.

_keena July 6 2009, 19:44:46 UTC

girl, you said a mouthful! reading your response reminds me so much of those old "mama's boys" threads that has been discussed numerous of times on NP.

anonymious1 July 7 2009, 00:30:16 UTC

he is big... but i seen u kick bigger bitches asses. let it be known point blank to him, your dad and/or his momma: if nate is in my house, and acts a damn fool / shows no respect...ass whooping! dont lk it? keep him out of my house. if we all go away together, watch him / put him in line, or else.... ass whooping! lmao. cant really teach him how to change now-- its too late, but you can show him you're grown and not 14. otherwise, lk you said, dont put yourself in that sitch... if you're having another family trip and dont want to deal with him, let your dad know up front: you dont put your kid in check, and i dont want to spend my free-time stressed.

i know 'cause im the youngest, we get away with lots of shit you already know my drama). its because the parents are old, and they dont feel like going through that shit again...then they look to the older ones to instill values into the youngins..

a lil ass-whooping never hurts. its the solution to everything lmao