Comments | _man_in_tights: Two with a bush is worth more than one in the barrel, right?

_man_in_tights

Two with a bush is worth more than one in the barrel, right?

Jul 04, 2004 15:25

So I've found the thing that is gonna start bugging me in this relationship I'm in ( Read more... )

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ladyhyacinth July 4 2004, 20:13:27 UTC

Aww sweetheart.

*cuddles*

_man_in_tights July 5 2004, 07:08:05 UTC

I feel I'm being an insult to men everywhere for wanting no part in a threesome.

ladyhyacinth July 5 2004, 20:11:29 UTC

Your not being an insult. Now stop being so silly.

You've had more than your fair share of threesomes.

radiant_eyes July 5 2004, 18:10:36 UTC

I like girls, too.

I would think this would be perfect for you. You're just confusing me.

_man_in_tights July 5 2004, 23:43:10 UTC

I'm confusing myself!
Believe me, before I would have jumped at the chance for this....but i think things become a little different when you are in a relationship with them.

I think I may be more of a jealous person than I thought.

vixenviolet July 5 2004, 20:24:42 UTC

oh shit. this isn't good ( ... )

_man_in_tights July 6 2004, 20:03:35 UTC

I always said I would save this sort of stuff for a more casual relationship. In a way, I was hoping my relationship with Lucy would be different than that. I was thinking it was a little more serious.

I'm a posessive person when I care about someone. While it's hot for me to think about being with Lucy and another girl, I really don't think I could do it. I think it could potentially lead to bigger problems.

I guess if she just HAS to have a girl, a reevaluation of our relationship will be necessary.

vixenviolet July 7 2004, 11:14:00 UTC

i hear ya, baby.

you know what you want...let it be known to the ones you love.

well.. mila_1971 July 6 2004, 19:09:44 UTC

"Do they think that just because I posess a cock and balls that I'm gonna jump at the chance of letting MY girl have sex with someone else, even if they're of the same sex?"

YES!! In her mind she is giving you this huge treat. If I were you - I would simply let her know that she's your "it" girl and you wouldn't want to share her with anyone. Say it casually and then if she persists with the "other girl" thing - you're going to have to sit her down and let her know it bothers you. Unfortunately, since she mentioned the "other guy" thing I don't think the reverse psychology thing is going to work with her.

Poor sweetie- this must come as a complete shock to you. I have to ask you something serious...are you sure Lucy is as serious about this relationship as you are? I don't want to see you hurt..you may want to start feeling things out with her. Guard your heart. To me, threesomes and all that are for casual relationships...just a thought.

Ping me on the AIM if you need to chat sweetie.

Mila

Re: well.. _man_in_tights July 6 2004, 19:57:09 UTC

are you sure Lucy is as serious about this relationship as you are?
Actually, I think this seems to be what's bothering me the most. I seem to be ready for something for once in my life and the girl is casually strugging it off.

I'm just worried that she isn't taking this as serious as I am.

Are you in IM right now? what is your screen name?

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Re: well.. mila_1971 November 23 2004, 17:29:34 UTC

i've never seen him put any pictures of himself up.

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pervpersuasion July 7 2004, 07:29:03 UTC

i totally know where you're coming from when you said that when you care about someone you become jealous/possessive. i do the same thing ( ... )

_man_in_tights July 8 2004, 19:17:07 UTC

Thanks. That is great advice. She and I will be talking about this very soon.