i've opened up my eyes, begun to realize i trusted way too many lies

[_nicole_]

You know what I really hate? When you find out that someone you thought you knew is actually not the person you believed them to be. It's really dissappointing. How does this happen? Am I just super-naive for believing that people are better than they really are? Or does everyone get constantly dissappointed by the people they know

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I know how you feel...

[etjustin53]

I am kind of like you. Whether on the internet or in real life I act the same. It can be a scary thought about marriage though... is the person you have been dating for years upon years, really their true character. Also, friends in high school... at least for me. We were close buds and we were strong christians. However, I found out he wasn't being totally honest with me. He was going to take me to michigan to move my stuff, but he was making excuses at the last minute. After 2 weeks of postponement, I went on bus and didn't take half of my stuff. It turns out he was living with a girlfriend in another town and he didn't want me to find out about it. I guess what we have to realize is that humans aren't perfect and true friendship continues even when we realize people have faults. I still love my friend (in a christian way) and I wish he would have told me the truth in the beginning because I still want to be his friend. He hasn't spoken to me in a month or two. In the process, I lost a very good friend. But hopefully he