My friends over you....

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[reginax]

hey andrea. damn that really sucks. i'm sorry ... it's not your fault that you feel weird around him being alone or if you like to be with your friends alot, so don't think it's that. and don't think that it's because you're not a good grlfriend becuz you are. if i were you, i'd wait for a couple of day, or maybe even weeks, and see what happens. if nothing changes then i think you should confront him about it. ask him what HE really wants and if he's really happy with you. & tell him if you're happy with him too. i personally think you guys make like one of the bestttt couples & wouldn't want you guys to break up. but if you feel like you're not ready for that kind of relationship & he does, well try to see if there's something you guys can work out. if not, well hey. i believe you guys are supposed to be together. maybe it just happened at the wrong time. if anything else, i'm here. hope you feel better. i love you <3

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see thats just it i told glory like a week ago that i felt weird with him and that id see how it goes and then he starts telling me this plus like he wants us to be together and i think i do too but right now im confused about the whole boyfriend/girlfried thing. and i know that he will never be used to it and when i ask him hell say yes but he wont be used to me not hanging around him all the time, cause thats whats hes used to and im not...and i dont want to do something that will be affecting him secretly..im just so confused right now
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[reginax]

yeah, i understand. well if you really feel that way then maybe you guys are better off as friend? i know it'll hurt both of you but it saves more pain later on in the future. albert's a great guy, and of course you're great too. like i said, maybe you guys should be together but not right now. i've always pictured you two together since the 7th grade. just take some time to think about it. maybe albert should also do the same. but think about it hard. you don't wanna make the wrong choice. think about the pros & cons .. it's not gunna be easy, i know. but in this kind of situations it won't hurt much to try.

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thanks Reg i really think your advice and Saydi's has helped now the tough part will be convincing that we need time to think about it... but really guys thanks "id be lost without you" love you guys to bunches!!

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[_em0diaries]

Awe, Andrea. Do you think that you and Al are better off as friends? Do you feel a certain connection, bond with him? I think it's kinda reetarded that people say to stay with Al just cause you make a good couple.. all that matters is what you both see in each other. Not with the person you're dating with. The decision is up to you wether you wanna be with him or not. Not your friends or anything like it. I mean it's kinda dumb to listen to someone else of a friend and says "Oh stay with him" I'm not trying to be mean, but that's what I see. Talk to Al about it, see what you guys can work out. I hope this advice works. If you need to talk to anyone, you know I'm always here.

Love you.

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thanks saydi
i dont know i think we might be better off as friends but he likes me alot and i cant help it and i would feel bad to break up with him just cause im not sure but like isnt that a reason not to be going out cause im not sure i dont know?!?!

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[greenlover03]

dude dont worry u guys are cool and well hes right nad ur right andrea go for waht ur heart belives in oohk its will the right choice that u pickk oohk think he cant hate you becuz u cant change to what he wants u to chnage tell him how u wanna feel with friends and u cant change for him eaither way your going out soo oohk i will go i fel real bad and sad ttyl<3

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glory

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[rawk_stahr]

hey andrea. its me lauureennnn! added you, add me bak?
<3 Lauren
P.S. i LOVE your journal, its soo prettyy!!!

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why thanks lauren i like yours too though its kinda gothic not that there's anything wrong with that!! ;) i added ya and to my sisters accidentally...oops haha oh well thanks for commenting keep on doing it!!
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