No worries. My LJ is fairly boring most of the time as well, so it goes both ways. I don't comment all the time, but I do read, and if I have something worth adding, I add it.
A lot of therapy talk. Some heavy shit from time to time. I can actually *use* LJ actively trying to change
That seems like a good idea, I've been thinking about orienting my own (well, one of them, at least) to the same direction, but I'm still trying to figure out exactly how to.
(And I'm grinning at myself now, using the word "just"...'cos it's not "just", is it? It's bloody hard work.) One of the good things 'bout doing it this way, I think, is that one has a bunch of "normal" people on one's flist who can give important feedback on how they see the world, on how *they* react to things. That can be an important pointer to your own problems. "They react completely different than I would - why is that? Maybe this is something I need to think about, maybe even work with?"
Yeah. Of course, one of the things I've learned, throughout the years is that no one is "normal", but as you say, the point is they're different, which is really enough. I think we have talked about this before, but my memory is fuzzy -do you go to cognitive therapy?
Yeah, it's cognitive - it's the prime model for treating anxiety disorders. Can't remember us talking 'bout this earlier, but my memory is fuzzy too, so don't trust me on that one. ;)
Could I have that in writing?_reduxJuly 12 2006, 18:30:58 UTC
Thanks, love! You know I talked about deleting this journal. But if I did, I'd be back to square one, wouldn't I? Leaving when something's bothering me. So let's try! But you got to promise me one thing - say exactly what you think. It will be a big help.
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Glad to have you. :)
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Glad you're staying.
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That seems like a good idea, I've been thinking about orienting my own (well, one of them, at least) to the same direction, but I'm still trying to figure out exactly how to.
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(And I'm grinning at myself now, using the word "just"...'cos it's not "just", is it? It's bloody hard work.)
One of the good things 'bout doing it this way, I think, is that one has a bunch of "normal" people on one's flist who can give important feedback on how they see the world, on how *they* react to things. That can be an important pointer to your own problems. "They react completely different than I would - why is that? Maybe this is something I need to think about, maybe even work with?"
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Can't remember us talking 'bout this earlier, but my memory is fuzzy too, so don't trust me on that one. ;)
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You know I talked about deleting this journal. But if I did, I'd be back to square one, wouldn't I? Leaving when something's bothering me. So let's try!
But you got to promise me one thing - say exactly what you think. It will be a big help.
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Hmmm, I dunno, I thought I was friend a person, not a fan girl... so no worries here mate.
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Just ignore me this week, my brain is dead.
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