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[_sanday_]

so i'm doing the crew summer program and it's pretty fun but i don't know if i really love it or if it's just a summer thing. I guess i don't exactly have like this talent for it that stands out, so i'm not quite sure where i'm going with it. so far this summer has been awesome. yeah so right now i'm totally not friends with my uh ex-really good

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[anonymous]

wow sandi, thats acutally excatly how i feel, just about a different group of friends. my summer has been awesome so far, and i've been spending it with a different group of friends. i dont want to be good friends with my "ex-friends" anymore, acutally i dont want to be friends with them at all. but i don't want to be enemies with them, and like you said, it doesnt feel right to just totally cut them outta your life. i'm really not sure what to do. i like my "new friends" sooo much better. my ex-friends are really mean, but they dont even know how i feel. so yeah, theres my life's story.

<3 unsure

[anonymous]

sandi, im your friend and my intention right now is not to be rude and mean. however, i know who this "ex-friend" is. and i just want you to think about how this person would feel reading this. seriousely, what you said was hurtful. i know to you its not a big deal but it probably is to this ex friend. to have a good friend that person has to be a good friend back. this person is trying to be your friend, but you are just blowing her off. im not trying to be judgemental, but you really should think about who is going to read your LJ before you write things that are hurtful. and if you have a sincere reason not to be friends with this person you need to confront her and tell her, not post your problem on the internet.im just trying to help.
~anonymous

[_sanday_]

haha uh first of all it shouldnt be hurtful because i didnt point any names out so you really you have no idea who im talking about, second of all i can write whatever i want in my journal, if you get offended by it, no one is making you read it.

[anonymous]

im not offended by it. sandi, it is your live journal i agree. but what you wrote was hurtful, i dont know i personally think that writng hurtful things in a LJ is not the point of a LJ. even though you didnt put any names, this person still knows who they are. adn even if this person is worng that it is them, you still made them feel horrible, just think about what you did.

[_sanday_]

whatever. people should just not take offense to things so quickly. honestly, dont feel hurt by it unless i said something to you specifically because i already told the person my feelings. i think it's funny, everyone thought they knew who it was, but they are all wrong.

[anonymous]

hahaha, Somebody's trying to beeee meee =D Woof!

-nio

[margaret_s]

i'm sorry, and i dont want to get into everyone's business, but i dotn see how what she said was hurtfull. idk, it doesnt make sense to me

[_sanday_]

honestly, people need to reread that. there isnt one hurtful thing in there. people are way to sensitive to things.

[_hk]

"i don't know if i really love it or if it's just a summer thing"

that line sounded like a summer boyfriend =)