Don't understand you.

[_soulseeker]

So I'm still left confused.. probably more than before. He called me last night which was totally unexepted. We talked for awhile too. And he actually stayed home last night.. he NEVER stays home on friday nights

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[mathematiks]

the shy, silent, mysterious type always attracts me, but when they want something, they don't do anything. i understand exactly what you're going through. there isn't anything wrong with being the agressor though (i actually like it) but when they don't step up AT ALL, you start to question. exactly, don't try no more. next time he hints but doesn't actually ask you out, don't do him the favor and do it, just leave it at that.

men are the pits... sometimes.

[_soulseeker]

Yeah exactly! When they don't do anything, I start to wonder.. does he really like me or not. I'm usually attracted to the shy mysterious types too. But I dunno.. he's not exactly.. shy. He can be very confident at times.. maybe it's just when it comes to askin girls out, he's scared of rejection? I don't know. But yeah I'll leave it up to him.

Men are the pits.. most of the time!! haha.

[originelle]

maybe he's still to shy to gather his balls to ask you out.

he's beauty-struck.
:P

[_soulseeker]

Hahaha I wish.
You're too cute<3 :)

[fromherveins]

that's a good way to go. let him do it and just don't think about it.

or it wouldn't hurt to ask him what he wants.
not getting anything direct is pretty annoying.

you're too hot to be treated this way. ;) but, if you want someone more aggressive maybe it's better just to brush him off?

[_soulseeker]

Yeah every time I try to get the guts to just be straight up and open with him, I end up backing out. I dunno why. I'm usually pretty blunt about things too. But I'm scared that it will just make things awkward or something. Last night when I saw him, I really wanted to ask him what the hell he wants or what does he even see me as.. but his friend was there. So yea not the best time to bring that up! lol.

Anyways, maybe it is best that I just brush him off. I'm probably just wasting my time. *sigh* We'll see..

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Re: maybe he's pullin your chain.

[_soulseeker]

Yeah I totally agree. Maybe he really isn't interested in me after all. I'm just so confused cause in the beginning (this was in my earlier post), we talked on the phone from like 10:30pm till 5am.. and that's the time he wakes up to get ready for work. So he basically got no sleep jus to talk to me. From then on we talked like every day. He would usually call me and if he didn't, I'd call him. And like on Valentine's Day (which was like 4 days after I met him), he surprised me with a dozen roses and a teddy bear cause he remembered on the phone the night before how much I liked gettin flowers. It was such a big surprise cause we barely knew each other. And we spent like the night just chillen n talking. Nothin more. So it was nice cause he seemed like such a gentleman. Everythin was goin good till one week he got really sick or somethin.. and then like we didn't talk for a week. And then he started callin me again.. and now he jus calls me like every other day or something. I duno.. it's strange now. He still talks to

Re: maybe he's pullin your chain.

[_soulseeker]

Yeah I'm starting to get very impatient with him!! It doesn't seem like it's going anywhere, so I'm just not going to bother :)

[nini_so_flyy]

Oh my gawsh girl, I'm going through that same situation...chile I don't know if we are friends or what...but this ain't my LJ though...enough about me...,don't worry about it sugah...he'll man up and ask you out eventually!

[_soulseeker]

I doubt it.. but it's ok. He's not worth my time.