aw how cute.
Dear Girls (from us guys),
Don't assume that guys won't care where you are, because we do.
It makes us feel SO secure to know that our girlfriends aren't off flirting with guys we've never heard of.
Also, don't talk about your ex-boyfriends.
We never have, nor ever will respect or like them, nor do we want to hear about them.
When you do, you're asking your boyfriend to be jealous.
You're asking your boyfriend to lose trust.
On that, don't hump everything that walks into the room.
We don't care if you talk to other guys.
We don't care if you're friends with other guys.
But when you're sitting next to us, and some random guy walks into the room and you jump up and tackle him, without even introducing us, yeah, it pisses us off.
It doesn't help if you sit there and talk to him for ten minutes without even acknowledging the fact that we're still there.
Also, when we tell you you're pretty/ beautiful/ gorgeous/ cute/ stunning, we freaking mean it.
Don't tell us we're wrong.
We'll stop trying to convince you.
The sexiest thing about a girl is confidence.
If you kiss us when you know nobody's looking we'll be more impressed.
You don't have to get dressed up for us.
If we're going out with you in the first place, you don't have to feel the need to wear the shortest skirt you have, put on every kind of makeup you own.
We like you for WHO you are and not WHAT you are.
DONT flirt with guys when we're not around.
We'll find out. Trust us.
We have eyes everywhere.
And when we find out, we're pissed.
Not necessarily with the guys you flirted with, more-so with YOU.
Don't take everything we say seriously.
Sarcasm is a beautiful thing. See the beauty in it.
Don't get angry easily.
Stop using magazines/media as your bible.
Don't talk about how hot Tom Cruise, Brad Pitt, or Jesse McCartny is in front of us.
It's boring, and we don't care.
You have girlfriends for that.
Girls, we cannot stress this enough:
IF YOU AREN'T BEING TREATED RIGHT BY A GUY, DON'T WAIT FOR HIM TO CHANGE. DITCH HIS SORRY, DISCRACE-TO-THE-MALE-POPULATION ASS, AND FIND SOMEONE WHO WILL TREAT YOU WITH UTTER RESPECT
Someone who will honor your morals.
Someone who will make you smile when you're at your lowest.
Someone who will stop what theyre doing just to look you in the
eyes....and say "i love you" ...
....and actually mean it.
THE END.
i had a dream about kyle turner last nite
wth//im thinking about calling him.
but i dont know.
i think i had my chance there.
but i dont really want him in my life.
right? right?
RIGHT.
and i dont want dbagdave in it either.
so why do i find myself
crying at johnny rockets when i talk about him
and seeing him with another girl?
I DONT CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE
I DONT CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE
I DONT CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE
I DONT CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE
I DONT CARE ABOUT HIM ANYMORE
...bullshit.
i do, i just cant help it.
he treated me like SHIT.
yet i still care about him so much.
im trying NOT to talk about him as much
but its so hard.
he was a HUGE part of my life for awhile.
i mean, i liked him from pretty much the first day i met him.
i knew he was something special.
i remember coming to school after my first day at work
and telling all my friends
"omg there is this CUTE guy at work with the same birthday as me. i have SUCH a huge crush on him."
and that was like 9 months ago.
i've cared about him that long.
no wonder this is so hard.
it sucks that he wasnt the person i thought he was.
and that he was just using me the whole time.
i just gotta keep telling myself about those times.
and NOT thinking about the good times.
like when we would go to the beach and sit there and watch the sunset
and when hed sneak over to my house.
...there i go again.
this must stop.
im sorry, dont read this.
this is just me rambling because i dont know why actually.
i just feel so alone sometimes.
but i felt that way the last few weeks with dave too.
i keep thinking that everything would be ok if i had him back.
and i could have him back if i wanted to.
i think thats what kills.
but id have to do something i dont want to do in order to have him back.
and HES NOT WORTH IT.
but to me he is.
i just have to
NOT talk to him
NOT talk about him
NOT think about him
wish me luck with that.
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