yo' wrath of god frak off;;

[_touched]

001. I'm not even going to bother with the original formatting of my journal posts, even though I'm ocd enough that it will bother me and I'll probably come back later and edit this entry to match the format of all the other's before it. But, I just ... this is really ridiculous and childish. The more I got to thinking about how inklane talked about

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[place_to_hide]

I hate when people talk about you behind your back. I know the feeling. Then you kind of feel like you can't trust 'em enough to be very open around them anymore. It might be different for you, I'm not sure.

[_touched]

No,I know exactly what you're saying and it makes more sense than you realize, especially in this situation. I was a fool to think that I could possibly trust her, but what pisses me off the most is how she acts like I was the one who was making her feel uncomfortable in her journal.

[place_to_hide]

Yeah, she shouldn't be the one making it seem like you made her feel a certain way in her journal when she was the one that talked about you behind your back.

I feel that way at work, I thought I could trust this co-worker that is also a friend of my parents. When I heard what she said behind my back, I just feel like I can't trust her and I can't say a whole a lot in fear it'll just give her something else to say about me behind my back.

[_touched]

Exactly, that's pretty much my point. Thank you, for saying that thought. It makes me feel a little better knowing someone understands and gets it.

I absolutely hate that feeling, nobody should have to deal with nonsense like that at all, most especially grown adults who shouldn't act like that. It's just stupid and idiotic, in my opinion. I'm sorry, you've had to deal with that. *hugs*

[lunarknightz]

My goodness. *hugs*

You certainly don't deserve to be treated like that. The net and fandom are supposed to be FUN, and bringing stuff like that into it is just disgusting, especially to a person like you- you have always been a sweetheart and an awesome person, even when we disagree.

I'm so sorry you've had to deal with this!

[_touched]

Thank you, hun. *hugs*

Somehow, I knew you would understand and you would know that I wasn't setting out to just not let her have her opinion. It was all just a very big misunderstand that went horribly awry and she felt the need to talk about me behind my back to people who didn't even know me and bad mouthed me, instead of take it up with me.

I'm glad that you know me well enough to know, what kind of person I am. I have always tried to play nice and fair in this fandom, I won't say that I haven't gotten frustrated a few times or exploded with a few opinions I probably should have kept to myself, but who hasn't at some point?!

I would never go to this length, though. And, I feel sorry for the Chlarker's/Chloisers that had to put up with the links of her and mojotastic's friend as well. It's just stupid, childish, and ridiculous.

[runawayxgirlx]

That really sucks... There are some very weird and rude people out there... Hope you're feeling a bit better by now. *hugs*

[_touched]

Yes there are and I don't understand why she would do this to me, I mean it's not like I was ever intentionally rude to her or anything. I like how she tried to make it look like I was always the one who was hateful to her and treated her so bad, but then she's the one who talked badly about me behind my back publicly where I could see it, got her little friend's involved in doing it too, and then turned around and tried to play the victim in all of it. It's just too ridiculous for words.

But, thank you, bbs. *hugs*

[headphonesbaby]

oh wow. that's crazy. I saw your message and I just want to say i know where you're coming from. I don't really understand why people are being so mean, it's probably the anonymity of the internet..but hang in there and she is definitely not worth your time *hugs*

[_touched]

Thank you, so much I really do appreciate that a lot. Coming from you, it makes me feel a lot better and less like the bad guy in all of this - that she's been trying to make me out to be. I just couldn't understand how she could so easily treat me that way and then play the victim card like I had been the big bad that dared to do evil to her. *hugs

[headphonesbaby]

oh sure, no problem. I think I can repost your post in my next journal entry.
you might also want to try asking nyonyo to post it over at cheap_knockoffs Its a place where people post icons/other stuff being copied off them.

[_touched]

Thank you, for doing that and for being so willing to help out. I'll definitely let her know about that community, in case she might want to post about it over there. :)

[anakaliaandrea]

What a mess. Still both your friends. But like i told you, should have been dealt with privately instead of spreading crap everywhere and making you look like the bad person so you lost friends because of it. That's not right. and these people should come to you personally and ask wtflip is going on before deciding to defriend you on her account.

Wow, I didn't realize how close and excat her methods of art were to this chick that I never heard of before. I mean I like the style, and it's nice for us cloisers to have it like the chlarkers but that's a a bit far. Wow. And not just with graphics. Oh my. Shelly.

I'm still there for her, as I know she's not having a great home life and she is scaring me. So I can't and won't leave her. Whether it was a misunderstanding between u two (cause you can't really read peopls facial expressions, voice tones online) or what but this needs to be dealt with right. I really hope she takes care of it! Again so sorry about this drama! *hugs*

[_touched]

I don't know if anyone else has de-friended me because of this, but I was worried that a couple of them might be leaning towards doing that. So far, I've gotten a lot of support from the few mutual Clark/Lois friends we've got in common and also from the Chlark/Chloe/Chlois camp as well.

After the last couple of days, I can definitely say that not all of the Chloe fans are as mean as I've seen Shelly try to make them out to be. They just want the backbiting and the unecessary rumors to stop and for people to quit acting like they're always out to get another camp in fandom, when it's really not even the case. They're happy to stay in their own camp and leave the rest of everyone alone.

nyonyo is actually a pretty cool person. She was once on my flist and she's friends with another awesome friend of mine, mojotastic whom I trust a great deal because I know she wouldn't and neither would nyonyo accuse someone of doing something like this unless they had the proof or the facts to back their allegations up. In which case, these two posts that I've supplied

[anakaliaandrea]

Well I really do hope every one you guys' mutual friends will thoroughly look at both sides and see whats going on instead of de-friending you on her account. If they are truly your 'friends' they'll do so. Which with the posts you've had, they have no excuse as to not knowing your side

[mojotastic]

well that's nice to here nyonyo isn't as bad as everyone made her out to be. I never truly assumed but I didn't now for sure. Just heard her name thrown around.

Hi! Sorry just popping in here, Suz said it was alright.

I was just wondering what exactly you'd heard before about nyonyo? I'm really curious because I've known her for years and she's a.) always been on the outskirts of fandom staying in her little pretty picspam/snarky corner and b.) never involved in any drama in the fandom whatsoever. So I don't even understand how she would have gotten some sort of rep for being ~mean~ or whatever. So I'm legit curious about what the rumors are about her in the Clois camp.

I hope you don't mind my asking, I'm just curious since you said you'd seen her name thrown around and were glad to find out she wasn't as bad as you'd heard. I can't remember ever seeing her involved in any sort of SV wank before this, ever, so I'm wondering where this badass rep came from? lol.