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[_tushie]

I'm off to Vancouver today.

I have been looking forward to a good coastal romp for a year, but I didn't want it to be for these reasons.  I'm so glad I can be with family right now, though, and that work was willing to adapt my schedule around it despite my not qualifying for bereavement leave.

I find it morbidly amusing that a mother in law

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[gutter_tart]

I don't handle other people's grief with much grace at all, not because words fail me, but because we fail each other by using words. Normally I try to skip the "I'm sorry for your loss" stuff, and I'm going to in this instance as well, but your post speaks to all of us (every human out there, just about) and with this entry, you've offered comfort to all on your flist who have lost a loved one... despite that not being the intention. More importantly, though, it's almost as if you're offering empathy to everyone who will lose a loved one.

Displaying the first steps of your grief, IMO, is an, "I'm sorry for your loss" in advance. For some of us, there is no greater comfort than empathy.

Unfortunately, this probably makes no sense at all, but that's because I'm very, very speshul and I understand that I life on Planet Fawn, but I want to say thank you for comforting all of your friends who have and those who will lose a loved one.

[jackietheripper]

its the year of death.
erick hung himself in my exhouse just a couple days ago
after a fight with brandon.
we still have to move our stuff out of there,
its fucked.
i hope this stops soon. i don;t think i can lose anyone else..\
hugz
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[ex_glassappl719]

I'm so sorry, sweetie. Much love to you, and call or come over if you need to. *big warm hugs*