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*BOYFRIEND'S FOR DUMMIES*
*101 DO'S AND DONT'S FOR BOYFRiENDS*
1. always hold their hand when walking with them or sitting with them.
--it makes them feel loved.
2. always sit with them no matter where you are.
--it shows them that you aren't ashamed that they are your girlfriend.
3 .be nice to your girlfriends friends/family.
--they have AL0T of say on if they break up with you.
4. when meeting your girlfriend's friends/family don't embarrass yourself and/or your girlfriend.
--she wants them to like you, not think your stupid.
5. always agree on the movie SHE wants to see.
--let her feel like shes in command, even if she isn't.
6. don't be afraid to tell her you love her, especially in front of your friends.
--she wants to know you love her; unspoken words can ruin a relationship
7. kiss her on her forhead.
--its more romantic than the mouth.
8. when possible, kiss her in the rain.
--its every girl's fantasy. and VERY romantic.
9. if you don't like her, don't ask her out.
--i think it explains itself
10. don't cuss around her.
--it seems very immature and very rude.
11. don't talk about other girls being hot.
--it makes us feel insecure and want to be prettier.
12. if they'll let you, play with their hair.
--its cute and shows you like her.
13. don't ignore her and talk to your friends/
--it makes her feel like you don't like her enough to pay attention to her.
14. don't try and act cool or popular or stuff like that.
-- we like YOU for YOU not some sterotype
15. don't flirt with her friends.
--thats just not cool.
16. jokes are ok every once and awhile but not all the time.
-- it gets old. we don't want to hear about some dude falling on his face.
17. when you get home from a date, call her and tell her goodnight.
--its sooooo sweet and tells us your thinking about us.
18. hold her hand when you walk through a parking lot.
--its makes us feel safe and shows us you want to be there with us.
19. when shes sad/mad put your arm around her.
--it shows us you care how we feel
20. call us beautiful.
--even if we argue we know you mean it.=)
21. don't give wedgies to other girls.
--thats just gross, and shows us you don't care.
22. don't point out that a girl's thong is showing or a girl's boobs are big
--think about it, we know you look but don't advertise it.
23. if you say something and we don't hear it, don't say nevermind.
--that makes it sound like you said something bad about us.
24. if your friends make fun of you for being sweet don't stop talking about us.
--it shows us that you don't care what people think about us, plus they're just jealous.
25. have cupcake icing fights with us.
--its cute and it tells us your ok showing affection in public
26. if you love our smile,laugh,etc.tell us.
--we love compliments,even if we don't act like it.
27. listen to us when we tell a story, even if its about "girl" stuff
--we do want your imput, you matter to us.
28. if you get annoyed at something we do, tell us.
--we don't like to get on your nerves, we like you to much to let you down.
29. when you pay for us and we feel bad tell us not to, even though we already know we shouldn't
--we have to say that or we feel like we're using you.
30. try not to burp in front of us, and when you do, say excuse me.
--its just gross and disgusting.
31. CALL US, don't make us call you.
--your the guy,(this sounds sexist)you should call us.9
32. try and laugh at the cute things we do.
--it makes us feel special.
33. don't make fun of us.
--we ARE insecure and don't want you pointing out our mistakes
34. go places with your girlfriend and her friends.
--it shows us you really want to be with us.
35. play along with our little games.
--just have some fun with us,its cute
36. if yall hear a song that is really sweet make it yall's song.
--if we have a song, it makes us feel like its going to last.
37. if we hang up on you, call us back.
--even if we're mad, we like to know you care.
38. if you like our outfit, tell us.
--we want to know you appretiate how much work we put in our look.
39. when we make funny faces at you, make them back.
--we want to have some fun, so play along.
40. chocolate is the answer to every fight.(unless she doesn't like chocolate)
--every girl loves chocolate.
41. don't talk about your ex-girlfriends.
--it makes us feel jealous
42. have an open mind to your girlfriends friends.
--we care about them too, don't diss our peeps.
43. When your mad at us or we're mad at you don't be afraid to talk about it.
--we need to be willing to work things out, if our relationship is going to work.
44. if we get mad, don't say is it that time of the month.
--think about it, is that EVER a good thing to say?
45. if we're in a fight don't go talk about us to people.
--we find out about it, we don't like it and probly will break up.
46. talk about the future with her
-- that way we aren't nervous that you'll break up with us.
47. tell us when you hear rumors about us. talk to us before you take any action because of it.
--we don't want to break up because of stupid rumors.
48. pick us up and sit us in your lap.
--its cute and shows us that your not afraid to show affection.
49. get close to our face, but don't kiss us.(eskimo kisses)
--its really sweet and we love it.
50. don't straight out kiss us, go 90 let us go the other 10
--we don't want to feel pressured to kiss you.
51. press your lips on ours dont just peck us.
--its waaay more romantic and we love it.
52. rub your lips against our face.
--its just cute and makes the feeling last longer.
53. DON'T TALK AB0UT F00TBALL ALL THE TiME!!!!!
--its so annoying and we don't understand it!!get that through your head.
54. when girls try to flirt with you don't flirt back and don't just let them tell them to back off and get away you love ______.
--if you don't like it when we flirt with guys don't flirt with girls
55. when we're laying down kiss us upside down.
--its sooo cute and we always wanted to.
56. don't watch us eat.
--its annoying and makes us feel like pigs.
57.feed us bites of your food
--its really sweet.
58. just stare at us when we're not looking,don't tell us you did, just do it.
--most of the time we know and we think it adorable.
59. when we argue don't get defensive, turn it into something sweet.(randomly say i love you, even if we're fighting)
--we don't like to get mad, don't make us.
60. make inside jokes with us. and when we do have them, bring them up randomly
--we love inside jokes,they make us laugh.
61. don't ask your guy friends if you should ask a girl out,
-- you should like her for her, not just if your friends do.
62. talk about your dreams with us.
--we like to be part of your life, even your dream one.
63. when guys try to be all over us, tell them to back on off
--cause we don' t like it either.
64. even if we're not talking to you on the phone, stay on with us
--it shows that you care about what we're doing and you care.
65. whenever she's talking at least act like you're taking interest in what we're talking about even if you have no idea what we're saying.
--it shows us that you take interest in what we are doing and what's on our mind.
66. Hold us tightly when we're standing together.
--it makes us feel special and safe.
67. dont put your arm around our shoulders!!!! put your arms around our WAiST!!
--we're your girlfriend NOT your friend.
68. dance with us when there is not music.
--it is just so sWEeT!!
69. when given the moment lay in the grass with us and look at the stars!
--its so relaxing and comforting to know that your boyfriend cares about the peaceful things.
70. call us baby!!
--we hear our name enough, you should call us by something else. especially that!!
71. hold up our chins. hold our faces to yours!!
--its sooo cute!! not everything has to be so sexual.
72. what ever happened to the word gorgeous/beautiful? tell us we are!!
--why does everything have to be sexy/hot? old fashion is really cute.
73. laugh at our jokes.
-- we want to THiNK we're funny.
74. text us over long weekends and say you miss us.
--we want to know you miss us.
75. open a conversation with "i love you"
--its really sweet.
76. call us just to hear our voice.
--it shows us you love everything about us.
77. don't complain about how many minutes you use on us.
--you should want to talk to us and it makes us feel bad,like we aren't good enough to use your minutes on.
78. come with us to silly events. like our sister's dance recital,a school play,a carnaval,etc.
--we get bored too, and that way we both are entertained.
79. don't come for the event, come for us.
--you should want to be with us,no matter where we are.
80. cuddle with us in the dark
--don't try and do stuff with us.(undo our pants)
81. when we get mad at you,beg for forgiveness
--its AD0RABLE!
82. massage our shoulders when we're sitting
--it feels good.
83. whisper sweet nothings(things) in our ear.
--we love to have conversations no one else can hear.
84. let us look at each other and not say a word.
--its having a conversation without saying a word that makes us love you even more.
85. wipe away our tears when we cry.
--it shows that you care even when things aren't at their greatest.
86. D0N'T P0P 0UR, OR 0THER GiRL'S BRA STRAP!!
--it hurts and is really really really extremely annoying.
87. when we say something that doesn't make sense don't look at us and make us feel stupid.
--you don't make sense sometimes but we don't freak out about it so don't do it to us.
88. laugh when we say something random.
--randomness makes things interesting.
89. when we sing along with the radio, sing with us.
--its really cute,and we don't look stupid alone.
90. dont ask to buy our food. just do.
--its really sweet. and it shows that you dont mind "spendin yo money on me"
91. pass notes to us in class.
--notes are hot! it shows that you spend time thinking about us during your day.
92. dont be afraid to share your personal, home life with us.
--if u trust us enough to go out with us than you should trust us with your life.
93. dont be nervous around us.
--be comfortable with us. you're the one that asked us out.
94. when the chance comes, brush our hair.
--its very comforting.
95. sing to ONLY us!! (romanticly)
--it makes us feel important enough for you to sing to.
96. dont make everything so sexual or perverted. (like jokes and things we say)
--it totally ruins the moment and is uncomfortable to be with you when you're thinkin about sex.
97. push our hair back behind our ears, and tell us our face is too pretty to hide.
--its sweet.and it makes us feel important and that you pay attention to our features.
98. don't try to touch us in places we don't want to be!
--OBVIOUSLY!! think what you will!!
99. let us know that size doesnt matter to you!! (boobs, butt, etc.)
--some of us aren't as fortunate as others. we can't help it.
100. don't talk about the stuff you do with us to your "guy"friends.
--our personal buisiness is OUR buisiness alone.
MOST OF ALL AND MOST IMPORTANT!!!!!...
101. YOUR GIRLFRIEND SHOULD BE YOUR BEST FRIEND THE PERSON YOU TELL EVERYTHING TO AND WOULD GIVE ANYTHING TO STAY WITH HER
--WE WANT TO BE THE ONE YOU COME TO WHENEVER YOU NEED TO AND VICE-VERSA!!
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WRiTTEN BY:
SHAR0N,CARSEN,MELiSSA,&ASHLEY<3