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[ablessingfound]

One thing i often ponder is sex. What is so sacred about it? Why do we restrict ourselves? Someone who has had sex with 20+ people is a whore. Why?! If it was all safe... What is the difference in me having sex with 1 person 400 times compared to 20 people 20x. I find it very hard to understand the majoritys opinion. Help me

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[layra]

If a man has sex with 20+ people he's a player and it's accepted. We all know that's not the case with females...

I don't understand the viewpoint either.

That whole "well, if you have a key that opens every lock, you've got a great key. But if you have a lock that every key could open...not a very good lock" phrase bugs me. I wish I had a rebuttal. But I don't and it irks me.

I could care less what other people do with their bodies as long as no one gets hurt.

[nippyfrog]

You could say, "What makes you think I'm the lock in this situation?"

That saying is sort of sexist. There's a clear lock analogy being the vagina and the key being the dick.

Anyway... I don't see value in people based on how many (or few) they have slept with.

[ablessingfound]

I dont think its sexist. It makes sense.

My thought isnt really about keeping stock in numbers. More of ... Hmm ... Why do we make it so personal and reserved for relationships. Im finding it very hard to articulate what im thinking.

[radio__america]

It's entirely sexist in that the 'key' is way more valuable than the 'lock' since the key can just fuck anything and still be valued, but the lock is devalued after one unlocking.

Anyway, I think everyone should bang whoever they want, however many times they want. I wish the others weren't so judgmental about other people's sex lives. It's not anyone's biz really except for the people involved, so if they aren't inviting you to know more about it - why do you care, you know? I couldn't care less about how many people a person has slept with.

[poziomka]

I kind of see it like ice cream. Yes, I'm going to use that analogy. I have my favorites, I have my go-to's, and I suppose I could forever subscribe to Cookies n' Cream (the kind with the REALLY fat chunks of Oreo). But would I wonder about strawberry and pistachio? Fuck yeah I would. Would I be happier if I was restricted from them? No. Would I feel like a better person, more disciplined at my keen ability to subscribe to only 1 flavor? Probably effing not.