That isn't a word I'm much good with either, due to that really wanting people to like me thing that I do. But people do like you and I'm slowly figuring out that people are actually pretty cool about the odd no. I don't give em enough credit, but I'm not sure if this applies here.
It's ok to say no. You need to keep your best interests a priority otherwise, you'll be unhappy. For example, this year at school i lived in a hole. The house was gross and my room was a pantry. For the first semester, i thought it would be great if the house were clean. This would benefit everyone and myself. Well, needless to say, after a few weeks of being the only one to vacuum, wash the floors, and clean up the cum off the tub floor, I said no. Maybe to myself but it was making me unhappy. So i stopped. I thought of my mental health and although that house has ripped me apart mentally, that week, the dirt did not.
I'm not quite sure HOW well this story relates, but my point is this: It's ok to say no. You always have options. If saying yes makes you unhappy and saying no would make you happiest, do that. Yes, ok time for bed
MUCH LOVE
PS. I washed the pillow that Raimi gave you and you left for me (accidentily). It's very clean and quite lovely now.
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I'm not quite sure HOW well this story relates, but my point is this: It's ok to say no. You always have options. If saying yes makes you unhappy and saying no would make you happiest, do that. Yes, ok time for bed
MUCH LOVE
PS. I washed the pillow that Raimi gave you and you left for me (accidentily). It's very clean and quite lovely now.
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